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| Author: | Harmony - [ Thu Jan 03, 2008 12:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Keeping attention |
I've hit a little situation recently.(in a club) In a big group, lets say a 6-set of all girls. Ive approached, and set a target (the thing is, I didn't have enough time to totally set who my target is. WWhat I mean is that they were all attractive) It started off great, but it seemed like I couldn't work the whole group. Some were zoning and looking out of the group a lot. because of this it was hard to reach the hook point. But eventually, eventhough I didnt work the whole group i locked myself into the group. 2 minutes in, and the target along with another friend left for the washroom .. WTF??... this really fucked me over, since these were the two I was focusing into. so qstion 1) What should I have done here? So now Im at the farside of the couch, and the girls are all along the couch. Only one girl was still looking at me (the one closest to me). I started to game her. I played some games, and i did a little fake hand reading. She was into it. I did some role-playing and other shit. Luckily, some girls from a previous set stopped by and sayd hey. I introduced them, and it I'm not sure if ii was showing too much interest int he othr girl but w.e So the target and her friend came back they seemed shocked tht i was still ther. And the other girls took their spot qstion 2) what should I have done here? Anways, I decided to eject. I took the other girls, and sayd hey pleasure meeting you guys, see u around the club. so guys, opinons and advice thnks in advnced |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Thu Jan 03, 2008 6:24 pm ] |
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Okay so you are saying your target and another girl went to the washroom and you stayed where you were? If they go to the washroom, I move to another set to continue my social proof. I will open them later or even better if they come after me! I don't wait around with the obstacles, it DLVs you. |
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| Author: | Harmony - [ Fri Jan 04, 2008 12:28 am ] |
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doesn't it seem like I was only in there to hit on them? |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Fri Jan 04, 2008 4:13 pm ] |
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Quote: doesn't it seem like I was only in there to hit on them?
You didn't give me enough information in the original post to comment on this previously. However, if you have that thought then it sounds like you have that lingering thought. You should walk into a venue and follow the 3-second rule to keep your social proof. Then you go from set to set even if it's a mixed set, and even if the girls are ugly. You do that to build social proof. If it's a set you don't like don't spend much time with them. By the time you get to the set you want, you have built enough social proof that you are just being friendly. So I challenge you, next time roll from set to set using openers and having fun. You'll get sharper faster, and you'll be better prepared by the time you hit a set with a target you want. |
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