What does she mean 'bored of your friends already' -- Theres pretext there that she knows about, that we don't. Seems like you made some new friends or something.
Anyways the best advice I can give is that if you do ask her out (cause I don't want to belittle someone else's opinion, this is just if you choose the obvious option of asking her out, unless you think you played your cards right enough to have her call you for a date) Make it seem like your already doing something and have her come along for fun. So I would find something fun to do and call her and be like 'what are you doing? omg thats so boring, you should come with me and do this.'
And if she rejects you, sorry mate somewhere you messed up, she's not attracted to you.
Honestly if she's in town for three days it seems like if she's attracted to you, she would call you. You need to think about how you came to find out she's in town. If she told you, why did she tell you, how did she tell you. How long is she back in town?
I dated this girl for the summer then she went to college a couple hundred miles away and every time she came back to town she would call me even if I already knew she was coming. On the drive home, when she got home, and sometimes before setting something up.
Remember to try and be the prize though, when you talk to her, make sure she knows you are attracted to her but don't jump through hoops for her. When I'm learning the game as well, but something I've learned is building value and expecting them to be attracted to you doesn't really work. Yes it will work on some girls, once they are attracted to you they will chase you, but for the most part you need to build value, have them be attracted to you. THEN start showing your attraction to them. However, whenever you start showing your attraction to them, make sure to stay the prize whenever you do it. This is something I just recently learned, and I can't believe I missed it before since it's so basic. You probably already know this, and if you did sorry I couldn't help, but if you didnt, I'm glad I could help.
You'd think she would want to hang out with you with the information you've given us so based on that I would be hesitant on calling her so much. Depending on how much game you've thrown at her, you either need to be forward to work more game on her, or elusive because you don't want to DLV yourself. I hope this helps.. I'm reading over this, and it would probably confuse me if I was in your situation
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