Oke thank you, sounds simple... maybe over tought it
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| Author: | RedJohn [ Wed Mar 28, 2012 9:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Freeze ME out?! |
Oke this is maybe a bit different from what you expected but I will explain. I was with my GF in a bar, dancing and so. Later on that evening a girl dances with me, a bit flirty, and I return to my GF to show the other girl 'I have someone'. But when I turned to her she freezed me out! She doesn't know the name or it can be done for punishing. She dit it all naturally! I didn't know how to respond on this behavior. So I walked away to the other end of the bar and waited. I think ten minutes later she came up to me and had a bit of a fight. Now it is allright between us. But it raised the question in me: How to respond on a freeze out? -- RedJohn |
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| Author: | doclift [ Wed Mar 28, 2012 9:19 pm ] |
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Don't acknowledge it. Roll off and start talking to someone else. When her body language opens back up, then you move in and take control of the interaction. |
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| Author: | RedJohn [ Fri Mar 30, 2012 10:55 am ] |
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Oke thank you, sounds simple... maybe over tought it
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| Author: | RetiredRodeo [ Fri Mar 30, 2012 1:23 pm ] |
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You don't repeat her behavior. Isolate her behavior and ensure she knows she did wrong. It's like a puppy who wets on the carpet... you want to correct the behavior without killing the spirit. You want to be frim enough to get the point across, but not to the point of ending it (well, maybe not LOL). If the relationship is serious - I'd bounce the club and go home. Then sit in total silence on the drive home - explain as soon as you get in the car that you're disappointed, and oyu'll be happy to talk about it when you've calmed. YOU are taking control then. She's having a lot of time to think.... and you're diffsuing the situation to (hopefully) avoid her wigging out. It's also my own 'shit test' of sorts. If she wigs out - game over. I won't abide a woman who's that angry. Drama begets drama and that invites my exit. If she's calm and realized you did nothing wrong - then it's cool and she's rewarded positively for her behavior. If not - we DISCUSS it til either I'm so fucking annoyed I end it, or it's put to rest. I don't allow 'white elephants' in teh room. I discuss them. (Disclaimer - I'm truly "that guy" when I am with a chick, but I'm so jaded and cynical - I don't even fathom the thought of entering into a relationship right now - so I may be biased...So take what makes sense - shitcan the rest.) Best of luck, Rodeo. |
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