So probably you have alot saved msn chatlogs or facebook messages with HB's. Next time you meet, print out some of them and take them with you, but switch actors. You will be her and she will be you. Act out those parts, read lines, make smile faces all you can. You can make tons of fun about written things, also read some lines sexy and slow to create attraction and alot kino. If you really get into it, then you'll understand HB's emotsions better and get better emotsional connection with her. And most important: Have fun!
By Temskron.
It's creative ,and playful too