Good Job

Why do you continue to bring posts from 6months plus back to life.... Getting your post count up with useless shit like this is annoying and just pushes current threads down the list.

Tell me why this works or why it doesnt?

I used to date this girl, Faerie, I really liked her, and she loved me. She was committed and monogamous. I wasnt, i still dated and slept with other girls. While she was true.
She once made vegan asian dinner and decorated her house in theme for me... Now, i can't even talk about it, but looking back she was such an awsome girlfriend...i never told her how horrible i was, but i didnt stop seeing other girls, nor dated her exclusivly...Out of guilt i was extra sweet and planned romantic occasions. Once, in the summer, she made me a duct tape wallet, because when we met i was totally a punk. I still have the wallet to remember her and how it used to be.
See, she committed suicide before graduating Pre-med. I feel horrible about it. I was the closest one to her, and she shouldn't have trusted me... I confessed to her headstone, but it's doenst make it feel any better...

Just a quick question

How do you get the preselection switch if you do not mention girls? Just by showing that you are not needy?

instead of outright mentioning them, slip them into stories as if by accident. Telling your story as if you were telling it to an old friend, who would know all of the girls is one way of doing it.

I.e; instead of "I went to the beach with some friends"
you say:
"I went to the beach with Katie and Jess"

I have to say, this is not my prefered way of doing it because it can seem a bit obvious if you dont get your vocal pacing and tonality down. (To do this, you need to speak slowly and speed up slightly in 'uninteresting' parts of conversation. make sure to speed up a tiny bit when mentoning girls, so you give off the vibe that it's not so important that they are there).

You can do it in other ways, such as adding elements to your stories that makes it a requirement for you to mention that you were with other girls.

It can be a bit tricky, and I'd be able to help your out more if you gave me a specific DHV to help you tweak with it, but that's the general idea.

A last example:

"I went to lunch with a friend and they did...." <- Bad.

"I went to lunch with a friend of mine today and she ..." <- Better

Subtle hints like that WILL get picked up by girls. I've even had girls stop me in the middle of stories to ask about the fact that there were girls there, when it really didnt matter (And you tell them this. Make sure to act like having girls around is no big deal).