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Author:  nighcrawler [ Sun Jan 01, 2012 10:49 pm ]
Post subject:  me feeling nervous when approaching girls
hey guys i just have a problem that i can't get my mind off of. Like when i am about to approach girls i always have a feeling she might tease, pick on me or pull a sh%t test on me i just don't know how to respond back
plus I'm asian and i always have a feeling that most american girls aren't interested into asian guys. i feel like most american girls are just racial stereotyping and i really hate it.
it just a limited mind i can't get rid of
any advice?
Author:  AFC_Suave [ Mon Jan 02, 2012 2:09 am ]
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Seems like you need to work on your inner game. These limiting beliefs are holding and will hold you back big time if you don't change/re-frame them.
my advice is to take a look at david deangelo's seminar "Deep inner game", that stuff will definitely help you enhance your self-esteem and change the way you think - you just need to be able to re-frame those negative thoughts into positive thoughts.

Also, you need to welcome rejection - it will make your stronger. just laugh at rejection. Remember, rejection isn't failing; failing, is not doing the approach.
Author:  catfish [ Tue Jan 03, 2012 2:33 pm ]
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There is how I deal with it. Ur mind is think all the bad stuff that could of happen. Eg she will blow me off. Then ur thinking is just bull shit reason u make up not to talk to her.

U need to Change ur mind frame by Thinking of the now! Eg right now ur reading this and right now u feel good cause it's now. Same as then u talk to anyone as u walk think now I'm walking I'm feeling good. It's when ur mind make up all sorts of crap that u don't need is then u pussy out.

Try moving with ur body n ignoring ur mind.

Buzz me if this helps player
Author:  juan47 [ Fri Jan 06, 2012 3:48 pm ]
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Accept rejection. It's nothing bad. Just means you have to work harder. But you know, you are, what you perceive yourself as. So just imagine yourself as a guy who gets , and is a complete bad ass. Just put this in your mind. It works. If you think you're something, you'll slowly turn into it.
Author:  andreami [ Fri Jan 06, 2012 5:49 pm ]
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Don't worry about it!! I think you should only do experiences! If you are nervous they'll feel it . If you're scared or nervous the conversation will be static and boring. Andin my opinion the most important thing when you meet girls is that you have to have fun. Go out and approach :wink:
Author:  juan47 [ Sat Jan 07, 2012 10:11 pm ]
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Don't worry about it!! I think you should only do experiences! If you are nervous they'll feel it . If you're scared or nervous the conversation will be static and boring. Andin my opinion the most important thing when you meet girls is that you have to have fun. Go out and approach :wink:
Exactly. the more experinced you are, weather being rejected, or whatver, you will gain ffrom that situation, and know what to do differently next time.
Author:  Dr. Spargenator [ Mon Jan 09, 2012 6:26 am ]
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this is an inner game problem. what you need is confidense. guys who are players and have a ton of girls following them everywhere have never been picked on, or told they were ugly. theyve only been told that they are liked by girls. they are pre selected, and because they have never been bullied or called ugly. they have confidence. girls pick this whole chain up unconsiously. thats why lack of confidence is a dlv. girls can sense whether or not you have confidence. It just takes practice. you need to just let your walls drop, when you are around girls in general. like you dont even care. and i promise you, american girls love asian guys.
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