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| Author: | charblad [ Thu Dec 29, 2011 1:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | Negs - the Basics |
My view on negs - Negs are as fined tuned as the woman your negging with. There is almost no neg that works on every girl, and even if you used a canned neg it wouln't REALLY work like in the movies. You neg a girl after you know her, or what you know about her; negging isn't putting a woman down, it's really about showing her your interested in her but she has to do some moves first. Also negging isn't for every woman, if shes a HB8 or less then don't neg at all, it's not a set rule but it's a heavy suggestion; you have a LOT more to lose than gain in these situations. You have to practice a LOT to get negs right, and you have to find the right girls to practice it on which is hard. Not a lot of guys get a HB8-10 and think "perfect time to practice my neg's" which is why you rarely see anyone who knows how to do one. Also don't neg a girl more than twice, and if you do it twice don't do those 2 in the same week; if you heard from your girlfriend everyday "your hair looks funny hahaha" it will get friggin annoying, this concept works both ways. Don't neg over the phone, there is no sarcastic, smirky, C/F font on your phone; and she will read it as a normal sentence to her, no matter how you meant for her to take it. Finally when in doubt, DON'T DO IT! Nothings worse than a neg gone wrong; she takes it offensively, and you act needy trying to make up for it, next time she sees you she'll bring it up and you don't want that. Please try and pass this on to the rest of the AFC's you know, I've been seeing to many posts with "I might have neg'd her to much" as their title. |
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| Author: | permisQus [ Thu Dec 29, 2011 3:01 am ] |
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Yes, I agree completely. Too many AFCs come off as jerks trying this stuff. A valuable post. |
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| Author: | Bond-007 [ Thu Dec 29, 2011 11:29 am ] |
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The problem might be ppl misunderstanding negs; rather than taking it as the tool they are, they apply it as a method. Indeed I have used a few negs in my life, some went really good, other really bad; but if I could eliminate em from the girls minds I will. Simply Im not comfty negging someone else, focusing on others negative characteristics wont make me happy. |
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