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| Author: | demosthenes [ Tue Dec 27, 2011 11:38 am ] |
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Yesterday night was rather interesting.. one of my x-girlfriends slept over at my house. Naturally one would think that we had sex, but that was not the case. (((The back-story to this girl: we dated freshman year of high school for a month, then broke up and proceeded to hook up all throughout high school. In my junior year she obtained a new bf who happened to be the captain of the wrestling team.. no joke he was comparable to a grizzly bear. Initially I respected her decision and kept my distance from her. Eh about half way through the year I foolishly allowed my little head get the best of me thus I decided to send her and "innocent" text message. Needless to say I hooked up with her about a month later.. She went down on me. It was awesome. Please tell me what I did right wrong.. any suggestions would be highly appreciated! -demo[/b][/u] |
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| Author: | Slip n Slide [ Tue Dec 27, 2011 7:38 pm ] |
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I would have loved some paragraphs. But here's what I've got for you. It had the symptoms of AFC. Taking her to smoke, wrestling over a blanket. I would have done all that a year ago and gotten nowhere with it. Her sarcasm was also probably not that, or at least no initially. You probably took something the wrong way, or misinterpreted her signals and bad vibes were had by all. But enough with that. You probably could have had sex with her. No problem that you didn't, but you probably could have. It sounds like at the party, especially when you opened the set smoothly, you confirmed that you were still worthy of consideration. She probably decided by the time she left that party that she was probably going to sleep with you. MOST IMPORTANT THING TO TAKE AWAY FROM THIS. Remember that she is wondering what you think of her. She considers what you think of her more than what she thinks of you. This is the aspect we rarely consider. She isn't thinking "He missed his chance with me that night," she's thinking "what was he up to that night? Does he like me or not?" This is hugely in your favor. Stay KIND, confident and sexual. It'll work out. |
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| Author: | demosthenes [ Wed Dec 28, 2011 9:23 am ] |
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Thanks slip. Random question, if I bring a girl into my room (preferably later in the night) is it wise to light a candle? |
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| Author: | Slip n Slide [ Wed Dec 28, 2011 3:55 pm ] |
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I noticed that question. I usually try to answer specific questions in my posts. The reason I didn't is that I don't think lighting a candle matters at all, it's neither necessary nor unnecessary. It could state your intentions as being sexual, but don't light a candle then say you want to go straight to bed. A candle would go well with some pillow talk, middle school truth or dare type games. |
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| Author: | Knife [ Wed Feb 15, 2012 4:16 pm ] |
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I'd be worried about the candle... Is girl is insecure... She doesn't necessarily want to have sex with you, she just wants to reassure herself that somebody still is into her... A candle gives her that confirmation... Some of yr responses may have given her that too... As long as she gets that, she has no interest in more... I would totally neg her and bring her down... She talked about her ex, 'what a tool, that the guy that usually take u to taco bell on the first date' 'does construction' amog... When she's cold, I would have jumped in bed and like shared the blanket... 'I think I'm cold too' then just reminisce about good memories... Fun u two had together, but non sexual...'remember that dog in our neighborhood' at some point smell her hair and start doing push pull... Ur hair smells nice - are u using a guys shampoo? U know I miss our fun times and kiss her on the forehead (again - build tension while she's gonna struggle to figure out if u are into her or just a good old friend). Next, start moving and positioning under the blanket for more... My favorite move... Spoon in a friendly manner... And then kinda roll ur hand down over her belly then breast while leaning in to smell her hair and kiss her neck... Slowly move along the neck laterally until she turns her head and kiss her... The rest is history... |
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