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Author:  Pinkfloyd123 [ Fri Dec 23, 2011 1:46 am ]
Post subject:  How do I build attraction?
Now I know the first part of an enountef is to open and there's many that work, but the part I understand is how do you make someone attracted to you?

So let's say you use a plain opener like the Cologne one style uses. What's next? What can you transition to, in order to make them stay AND be attracted to you after you opened.
Author:  Domr [ Fri Dec 23, 2011 4:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I build attraction?
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Now I know the first part of an enountef is to open and there's many that work, but the part I understand is how do you make someone attracted to you?

So let's say you use a plain opener like the Cologne one style uses. What's next? What can you transition to, in order to make them stay AND be attracted to you after you opened.
tease usually
Author:  hutzy [ Sat Dec 24, 2011 8:06 am ]
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Tell interesting stories about yourself that DHV.

It's easier said than done; I'm stuck at this stage too..

What I find is that if you're doing day game as a college student on some girl from your class, Negging may not be the best tool for you until you've attracted them and built some comfort. Of course, this depends on individual cases, but it's safe to assume that girls from your class may not be as socialized as girls you meet in the club.
Author:  pumpington [ Sat Dec 24, 2011 11:19 am ]
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if you are talking about a2 and a3 during mystery method, it is
a2, dhv and neg,
a3 qualify

basicly, you dhv and neg and wait for 3 ioi's then start qualifying

and a dhv, is just a demonstration of higher value, demonstrating is better then qualifying yourself

pre-selection, leader of men, willingness to emote, protector of loved ones

better to come into a bar with a girl on your arm,
better to say to your friend, could you bring me that beer,
better to say, FUCK and get angry when someone accidently smashes your balls
better to stand up for your friends when they are in need

demonstrating is way better then just bragging, and telling stories is the easiest way to verbally dhv, you just tell cool interesting stories about things that outline these 4 dhv's,

then there is negs, realize it is a negative compliment, not an insult
you only use these when she is acting like a snob, or being a bitch, guage the harshness of the neg based off the situation

you're so cute, you're like an adorable little sister, im going to adopt you

wow, you can drink that?, haha i love a girl who can handle a manly drink

you know from far away you looked like such a bitch, but now that we're up close you are really friendly and cute

how do you hang out with this girl? is she always like this?

wow, doesn't this girl remind you of a turtle she is all cute and defensive, haha just like a little turtle, (if she continues being defensive or rude just keep saying, see just like a little turtle)

negs are somewhat of a tool to make girls behave, then once they are behaving you just toss out dhv's in hopes you get some ioi's that let you know it is time to qualify her cause she thinks you are interesting

some example dhv's

that story about the time, you and your buddy were camping and saw a big bear, and it came really close to you, so you told your buddy, fuck this, lets get the hell out of here, and the bear ate all your food and took off,

the time, you and three girls were at an ammusement park and some homeless guy was trying to hit on them, and you got him to tell jokes for money and every thing worked out better then expected, and you all had fun

the time, your buddy was being harassed and threatened by some douchebag and you spit in his face, and you and your buddy out ran him

the classic fight outside

the qualification is fairly simple, you set out preferences and see if she complies with trying to meet those preferences to impress you, then reward her for qualifying to encourage the approval seeking behavior or you dis-qualify her for not qualifying herself to your preferences to dis-courage her not seeking your approval, it is basically a subtle form of manipulation that encourages her to like you and act in a way that you prefer, basicaly you start small and increase the amount of investment you request and talk about your qualifcations for a while and vibe on them

example,

hey, I love snowboarding, it is like my dream to meet a girl who snowboards, we could go have snowboarding sessions and make out on the chair lift, it would be SOOOO DREAMY (make a heart sign with your hands and smile at her), you look like one of those SNOWBOARD HATERS, YOU'RE NOT A DAMN SNOWBOARD HATER GIRL ARE YOU?!? HUH?!? ARE YOU?!? (keep smiling hold the frame that you're teasing her), if she says no, and is giggling or w/e she just qualified, just continue with, OMFG I LOVE YOU, lets get married and have 14 kids, we will name them all bob, but actually never mind, you're more the sexy one night only girl, i love girls like that.. (continue into more qualification, you can start silly to make her want to invest, then get more serious, if she seems to actually have an interest in the qualification, stay on the thread and elaborate and talk about your commonality together and how awesome you both are for both sharing that thing),

once you get to a high level of investment, just go for a kiss, then you just spend some time with her, get her alone, try to make out with her and put your dick in her, everything she says and does just agree with it, and keep trying to go more towards putting your dick inside her


there is alot of, other shitty routines you can look up, and fun stuff, if it matches your personality then use it, but you really don't need routines if you can just freestyle having fun, and making it fun to hang out, just having fun in it's self and ammusing yourself, will create attraction for anyone that joins your vibe, you ever meet a guy who was just cool as fuck and you loved hanging out with him and somehow a bromance grew and you had a man crush on him cause he was so awesome to be around?, that was attraction, it usually just stems off the person with the strongest frame bringing the most value to an interaction, you bring the party there fore you are the party
Author:  Drewsifer69 [ Wed Jan 04, 2012 2:16 pm ]
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Solid advice pumpington! I will use some of this for sure
Author:  GWhizz [ Wed Jan 04, 2012 6:40 pm ]
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damn pumpington one of the few posts that is really applicable to my life.

What I don't understand is why you tell her that you spit in a guys face, and then run away? What kind of wussy behaviour is that in her eyes? Isn't it a better story about that a guy grabbed your sister/girlfriends ass without her liking it, and then you snapped and totally fucked him up?(protection)
I love that snowboard story though.
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pumpington said:
the qualification is fairly simple, you set out preferences and see if she complies with trying to meet those preferences to impress you, then reward her for qualifying to encourage the approval seeking behavior or you dis-qualify her for not qualifying herself to your preferences to dis-courage her not seeking your approval, it is basically a subtle form of manipulation that encourages her to like you and act in a way that you prefer, basicaly you start small and increase the amount of investment you request and talk about your qualifcations for a while and vibe on them
I kind of get what you're saying and really like it. But I want to know more about this particular 'part'. You got some useful links/articles that go further into that part?
Author:  Dahn [ Wed Jan 04, 2012 9:29 pm ]
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well as stated before teasing is def a good start along with a story or 2, heres how I would handle it if I was using it:

Me: Say which one of these colognes do you think is better smelling

Her: Colonge A seems to be good for you

Me: Really, Thats interesting because I do usally go with *blank* smelling colognes. So why did you pick A?

Her: blah, blah, blah

Me: You know what, your kinda cute. Hmmm it's something about you that I like I just can't put my finger on it, whats your name?

Her: Oh really....its such a such a such. What is it that you like about me?

then just take the IA from there and raise the tempo. Usually once you have made a statement about a person that you have noticed they usually take interest and want to know more. And what I have noticed is if your SINCERE then people are willing to listen to you.
Author:  40 year old virgins broth [ Mon Jan 09, 2012 3:51 pm ]
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you cant build attraction if there is none. U might be able to enhance it, but this idea that you can capture attraction in a test tube and study it is pretty silly.

If u talk to 100 women 1 might find u attractive, go after her
Author:  Tyler Brand [ Sat Jan 14, 2012 3:57 am ]
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sweeet advice pumpington!
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