im new to PUA but i know enough to tell you. you are the MAN
the IOIs usually mean everything went as planned or routined and that the rest of the conversation should be easy going since the fact that she gave you the IOI first {or did she?} after that it should be pretty easy to number close heres the routineget her laughing.
get her laughing again but plz dont tell the same joke or funny comment it gets old.
react to the IOI, after u learn to realize them,you should be able to react to them. how? ESCALATE! the IOI usually means her BITCH SHIELD is down. its like beatin killin a HALO CHARACTER. think about it.select your target.approach to kill(the opener),take down the shield (her bitch shield anything you feel like using may work) and finally strike your target to kill it (you number close) u dont actually kill her lol remember you want to ESCALATE not go in for murder.
finally number close. heres how :
SABIO:you know wat? i like ur opinion on the question i asked (watever u used as opener) maybe i shud turn to you more often. do you mind?
if she says sure then ignore that and go with DO YOU HAVE (A) NUMBER you can have me BOTHER you on (use the bother as a self neg since she already know u dont bother her in a bad way)
if she says shes taken are u rejected? no way were PUAs WE DO NOT GET REJECTED if she says shes taken immediatly ask. "HEY! no dating =p after all i need ur opinion on certain cases not anything long term (she usually changes her mind) which is good
having done dat ask her DO YOU HAVE (A) TIME U CAN HAVE ME GET IN TOUCH WITH YOU?
she either says anytime which usually means bullshit its a blow off she says it since shes not worried bout ignoring your call
if she gives u a specific time
lets say saturday night.make sure she actually means that.
wat do u do then? u text her FRIDAY (yea it goes against txtin) but not alot of thi ngs tho just a funny msg or a neg just to remind her of your upcomin call on saturday night...
why friday
instead of the specific time she gave you? friday girls usually make the plan for the weekend which includes saturday. txt her then and if she found you interesting enough she might invite u to watever she is doing on saturday. shes not doin anything? good add her to YOUR plans here:
SABIO:are you one of those girls that grab a bible and sit home saturday nights and study it upside down?
HB(W/E): PSss.. no ur crazy? i usually hang out with friends but so far no one seems to have the time.
SABIO:really? thats mean to do to such a cutegirl as u (first complement)
HER:
how sweet thxSABIO:hey dont thank me yet
HER: THEN WHEN?
SABIO:thats a good question (heres where u ask her for a night out)
SABIO:WHEN? good question.tomorrow night at the starbucks with the sweet music u told me you like which by the way its horrible to me but ill deal with it (say this playfully its a NEG)
BEFORE she says anything interrupt her. u remind her who the prize is by sayin "HEY YOU ARE THE ONE WHO'S MISSIN OUT) after all dont u want a soft capuchino combined with the horrible music u like? (same neg about the music?)
if she says yes then usually give her a funny questioning like "thx now i finally get to see who gets the biggest brain freeze! or something like that
if she says no then dont bitch out heres how to react or one way "great i guess ill have to listen to YOUR HORRIBLE MUSIC by myself
while u sit home saturday night at home in a yoga position reading the bible upside down. (lol)
HER:noo.. pss. i dont do that! r u crazy?
SABIO:well if u dont do that then wat wud u possibly do on a saturday night? "i hav an empty chair at starbuks call me back if its not the bible " and hang up nicely
if she doesnt call back then its not really the bible but w/e shes doing its not benefiting u
if she calls back then its definetly not the bible n she wants that empty chair
if i messed anyway or anywhere msg me of subject of mistake awareness keep in mind im new in PUA
it worked before i used this myself