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| Author: | Ice-cold [ Sat Nov 03, 2007 7:42 pm ] |
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Well basically the girl is in to her self, she thinks shes good looking (she is but not a 10, I personally find her more cute then hot), now when she will comment on her appearance I dont really know what to say, I usually just comment on mine, i.e: She said she would punch me in the stomach, I replied dont do that you will hurt your hand. Now im not sure whether I should play along and agree with her or try to neg her. Im also not sure if shes just into her self or shes just being playful and flirty, what should I do? |
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| Author: | Ice-cold [ Mon Nov 05, 2007 4:51 am ] |
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Also would like to add that she sometimes says stuff like "why do you want to see me", Im not sure if this is some test or whatever. What do I respond with that. |
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| Author: | Charm333 [ Mon Nov 05, 2007 7:25 am ] |
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I hav met Reeeaally insecure girls who just said shit like that cuz they had low self esteem... so try to find out if it's that or just the size of her head. |
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| Author: | Ice-cold [ Mon Nov 05, 2007 2:13 pm ] |
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Quote: I hav met Reeeaally insecure girls who just said shit like that cuz they had low self esteem... so try to find out if it's that or just the size of her head.
I cant get a solid read on her (which is what interests me in the first place), shes short but she comments on it all the time.
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| Author: | Apollo.69 [ Mon Nov 05, 2007 6:57 pm ] |
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I no a girl called dan who is also short and does the same thing my personal opinion i think its a form of a bitch shield she is afraid that guys wont treat her right so she tries to make you think she is self centered so that you treat her with respect |
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| Author: | Ice-cold [ Mon Nov 05, 2007 10:37 pm ] |
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Quote: I no a girl called dan who is also short and does the same thing my personal opinion i think its a form of a bitch shield she is afraid that guys wont treat her right so she tries to make you think she is self centered so that you treat her with respect
How would me thinking shes self centered make me want to respect her? Its kind of a turn off, also what should I do about the bitch shield.
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| Author: | Blues [ Tue Nov 06, 2007 2:20 am ] |
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I'd handle it delicately. Try to get a better read on her -- if she really is an insecure person, negging a lot is a bad idea. If she thinks/knows she's hot shit, then you'd want to neg more. Try some negging and see how she responds, then take it from there. |
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| Author: | Ice-cold [ Tue Nov 06, 2007 3:05 am ] |
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Im no good with negs, any sample not to harsh negs? |
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| Author: | kinoescalator [ Wed Nov 07, 2007 9:53 pm ] |
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Once again guys, im real new at this, but...... I once knew this girl that was maybe a 3 or 4, not hot at all. However, she had an atitude like she was a HB10 on juice! I got to say, even i was getting the hots for her (We actually hooked up once but w/e). Interesting enough, the guys she got were the kind of guys you would normally expect to be with a HB10. I would guess this is why by us doing DHV we can make ourselves "hot". Its not so much physical, its how hot you make yourself out to be. Like I said guys, im new, so please correct me if im off on this. --John |
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| Author: | Ice-cold [ Thu Nov 08, 2007 3:20 am ] |
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That kinda makes sense, confidence is attractive in both genders, I dont see it working for a 3 lol, I knew a 3 who acted hot, it was sad because no one wanted to say "STOP YOUR DISGUSTING!" About this girl shes maybe a 7 but constantly makes comments about how hot she is, or like I said questions me on why I want to see her. What can I do? |
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| Author: | masterPUA [ Thu Nov 08, 2007 4:26 am ] |
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Quote: I'd handle it delicately. Try to get a better read on her -- if she really is an insecure person, negging a lot is a bad idea. If she thinks/knows she's hot shit, then you'd want to neg more. Try some negging and see how she responds, then take it from there.
yep. i've dealt with a girl like this before. she thought she was the shit. i slowly weaseled my way in. a few good negs really get the job done, but say it with a serious face, not playfully. if you say it and smile she will shit test you and say your not funny. if that happens say something like "just joking, take it easy" or "most girls dont have a good sense of humor..." but be very cautious and always ready for a shit test.
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| Author: | Ice-cold [ Thu Nov 08, 2007 7:48 pm ] |
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Where can I learn some good negs, im really bad with negs. |
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| Author: | FreeLife [ Thu Nov 08, 2007 8:37 pm ] |
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The Venusian Arts Handbook has a nice section on neg theory |
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| Author: | PuaNegGuy [ Thu Nov 08, 2007 10:53 pm ] |
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I love negs, man. thats practically all i do. My trick really is to be kind of mysterious to it. I maintain a cocky funny approach. I try to sound serious but joking at the same time, if that makes sense. Make it serious with a little playfulness and if she gets mad or something say i was just playing. Negs are easy, you just gotta put her down. Tease her on her style, the way she dresses and the way she acts. just playfully joke with her, use the first thing that comes to your mind, less thought sometimes is better. |
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