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Author:  Kabi [ Sat Sep 17, 2011 2:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Disqualifier

Okay, i've been watching some vids of seminars and I cant figure this out.
Tell me if I get this wrong, are you suppose do disqualify when she puts her bitch sheild on? Like lets say I approach her by:

Me: Before I go back to my friends, i'm gonna ask you how long you both known eachother.
She: Fuck off douchbag (maybe that was a little ruff)
Me: You're such a little shit, do you know why u and me will never get along?
W'ere to similar, you wont take my shit and I wont take yours (mysterys qualifier).

Is that how it's done or have I got this the wrong way.

Author:  KingRailed [ Tue Sep 20, 2011 11:43 pm ]
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I don't know if I would go as far a calling her a little shit haha

Author:  pumpington [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 1:13 am ]
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basically it is one way to show you are not chasing rapport, it is not fully necessary, some ''gurus'' like juggler suggest just building rapport the whole time, the whole MM standpoint is open, hook, break rapport, when she is interested, qualify, build commonalities, sexualize, and seduce

go in field, test this at a club, open a bunch of sets, don't break rapport or use a disqualifier one night, then next night use it, and watch the difference, you will get better results if you are trying to be social, girls know why you're talking to them,

essentially there is 3 routes most guys take,

regular guy = chases rapport, does not define the reason for talking to a girl, just chases the rapport in hopes she will find him attractive enough to build some rapport, maybe if he is lucky she will just make a move

indirect guy = breaks rapport to be fun, girl assumes he is talking to her to get in her pants and chase rapport, but then he just disqualifies her and appears to just be having fun and wants nothing to do with sleeping with her, even though ultimately she was right to begin with and it was all tricks and lies, maybe she has warmed up to you though by the time she realizes and will sleep with you anyways, girls see through this though when you suck at it and are coming off as boring and needy

direct guy
= just walks up, states his intentions, take it or leave it, doesn't waste time, somewhat ineffective with alot of competition / social pressure around (girls friends judging her for talking to guys, the more friends the more pressure), but if you don't give two fucks and are live in a big city with abundance this is more then likely quickest most efficient way to meet/sleep with women, requires less game, but more balls


now in your specific situation, that one would work ok, but you need to keep in mind when a girl is offering you trouble like this you have to cut her threads, and remove her from the conversation, break rapport on her, then chase it with someone else quickly in range,

so she says fuck off douche bag,
you say, wow your so funny when your a bitch, (turn to her friend) how are you friends with this girl is she always like this? so anyways blah blah blah *routine* (welcome to plowing, sometimes it will work, sometimes it will not, the trick is control the fucking frame always and don't let girls respond to negative validation, you just toss that shit at them when they are misbehaving then transition quickly to something neutral to positive)

Author:  Tr@veler [ Tue Sep 27, 2011 6:52 pm ]
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You and I would never get along! Said playfully with a smile, possibly sideway hug.

Author:  Omalie Cat [ Wed Sep 28, 2011 11:59 pm ]
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Oh my god, does that usually scare guys off? That's so awesome! I don't see too many girls who stand up for themselves like that. You could be like my super tough body guard.

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