PUA Forum :: number closed HB; please comment on my text game

Right so I number closed (well bbm) this HB8 pretty hot shes 18 going to university in september (im 21) works at hollister also; I think she was a tad tipsy we had a good conversation was a bit too long though like 15minutes; she was pretty amazed at the "think of a number between 1-4 is it 3" thing...anyway

Next day I bbm her at like 7ishpm.

ME: Being your 200th bbm...there must be some kind of reward for this??
(closed question can be answered with yes or no)
HB: hahaha congratulations.. ?
(she gives you what she can)
ME: Wow not even a free goodie bag?!
(once again closed question)
HB: Hahahha afraid I have nothing to offer u
(again she gives you what she can but is slightly giveing iod, she is not in good mood)
ME: Boooobooo you're boring, thought you would be more fun!
(iod calibrated with disinterest of your own, as you should)
HB: Recovering from a mental night at oceana... Ohhh yeahhh
(she qualifies herself to you for properly calibrating)
ME: Haha I take it you dont have many of them?
(once again closed question, and your asking her to negatively frame herself, more or less iod and this is uncalibrated since she just qualified for you)
HB: Haha no I do.. Slightly sarcastic
(not sure if she wrote slightly sarcastic, but she basicly once again gave you what she could, a yes or no to a closed question and obviously she will try to frame herself positively, girls don't like to jump into negative frames unless they are low self esteem)
ME: Looks like someone has to widen their social circles!
(uncalibrated iod, no need to keep neging her when she is not showing active disinterest)
HB: Hahah to beyond oceana..
(your giveing her nothing to hang onto, its just iod after iod and closed loops, she obviously needs higher BT, by this point it is obvious she is being unreactive)
ME: Mmmhh im going with friends for drinks in london some time this week, guess you could come along if you promise to behave
(nothing is wrong with this)
HB: Im off to ireland tomorrow !
(seems like a legit flake reason)
ME: Gutted for you! bbm me when you're back
(you request compliance)
HB: Will do x
(she complies)

I kind of got the idea she wasnt keen/interested I duno would be cool to maybe get a Day2 out of this but its going to be difficult especially as shes away on holiday also...

whats my play here?

appreciate all feedback x

Lukas

do not hit her up at all even if u get drunk

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do not hit her up at all even if u get drunk

Can you please explain the logic behind not contacting?

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do not hit her up at all even if u get drunk

Can you please explain the logic behind not contacting?

she said she will contact you. the ball is in her court she could play it anyway she wants.

i mean do you, but if a broad tells me shell hit me up i always wait on her
i wouldnt wanna seem thirsty or desperate

maybe after a period of time shoot her a ''hey how you been'' text

Author:	Bison [ Thu Jul 21, 2011 4:34 pm ]
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Right so I number closed (well bbm) this HB8 pretty hot shes 18 going to university in september (im 21) works at hollister also; I think she was a tad tipsy we had a good conversation was a bit too long though like 15minutes; she was pretty amazed at the "think of a number between 1-4 is it 3" thing...anyway Next day I bbm her at like 7ishpm. ME: Being your 200th bbm...there must be some kind of reward for this?? HB: hahaha congratulations.. ? ME: Wow not even a free goodie bag?! HB: Hahahha afraid I have nothing to offer u ME: Boooobooo you're boring, thought you would be more fun! HB: Recovering from a mental night at oceana... Ohhh yeahhh ME: Haha I take it you dont have many of them? HB: Haha no I do.. Slightly sarcastic ME: Looks like someone has to widen their social circles! HB: Hahah to beyond oceana.. ME: Mmmhh im going with friends for drinks in london some time this week, guess you could come along if you promise to behave HB: Im off to ireland tomorrow ! ME: Gutted for you! bbm me when you're back HB: Will do x I kind of got the idea she wasnt keen/interested I duno would be cool to maybe get a Day2 out of this but its going to be difficult especially as shes away on holiday also... whats my play here? appreciate all feedback x Lukas

Author:	GameIsOn [ Sun Jul 24, 2011 12:24 pm ]
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Quote: Right so I number closed (well bbm) this HB8 pretty hot shes 18 going to university in september (im 21) works at hollister also; I think she was a tad tipsy we had a good conversation was a bit too long though like 15minutes; she was pretty amazed at the "think of a number between 1-4 is it 3" thing...anyway Next day I bbm her at like 7ishpm. ME: Being your 200th bbm...there must be some kind of reward for this?? HB: hahaha congratulations.. ? ME: Wow not even a free goodie bag?! HB: Hahahha afraid I have nothing to offer u ME: Boooobooo you're boring, thought you would be more fun! HB: Recovering from a mental night at oceana... Ohhh yeahhh ME: Haha I take it you dont have many of them? HB: Haha no I do.. Slightly sarcastic ME: Looks like someone has to widen their social circles! HB: Hahah to beyond oceana.. ME: Mmmhh im going with friends for drinks in london some time this week, guess you could come along if you promise to behave HB: Im off to ireland tomorrow ! ME: Gutted for you! bbm me when you're back HB: Will do x I kind of got the idea she wasnt keen/interested I duno would be cool to maybe get a Day2 out of this but its going to be difficult especially as shes away on holiday also... whats my play here? appreciate all feedback x Lukas I suggest you wait for a bit until she actually returns from her holiday and see if she does text you back. If she does you got the green light, if not you might wanna send her a last little text where you put in something totally awesome that happened in your life when she was gone. You need to let her know that you had the greatest time ever basically feel free to C&F and exaggerate here.

Author:	Vitamin-J [ Sun Jul 24, 2011 12:48 pm ]
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you look solid dude, when she gets back, I wouldn't wait too long to message her, she's gonna have a lot on her mind with the trip things to catch up on and the like. you wanna stay fresh in her mind.

Author:	pumpington [ Sun Jul 24, 2011 1:33 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: number closed HB; please comment on my text game
Quote: Right so I number closed (well bbm) this HB8 pretty hot shes 18 going to university in september (im 21) works at hollister also; I think she was a tad tipsy we had a good conversation was a bit too long though like 15minutes; she was pretty amazed at the "think of a number between 1-4 is it 3" thing...anyway Next day I bbm her at like 7ishpm. ME: Being your 200th bbm...there must be some kind of reward for this?? (closed question can be answered with yes or no) HB: hahaha congratulations.. ? (she gives you what she can) ME: Wow not even a free goodie bag?! (once again closed question) HB: Hahahha afraid I have nothing to offer u (again she gives you what she can but is slightly giveing iod, she is not in good mood) ME: Boooobooo you're boring, thought you would be more fun! (iod calibrated with disinterest of your own, as you should) HB: Recovering from a mental night at oceana... Ohhh yeahhh (she qualifies herself to you for properly calibrating) ME: Haha I take it you dont have many of them? (once again closed question, and your asking her to negatively frame herself, more or less iod and this is uncalibrated since she just qualified for you) HB: Haha no I do.. Slightly sarcastic (not sure if she wrote slightly sarcastic, but she basicly once again gave you what she could, a yes or no to a closed question and obviously she will try to frame herself positively, girls don't like to jump into negative frames unless they are low self esteem) ME: Looks like someone has to widen their social circles! (uncalibrated iod, no need to keep neging her when she is not showing active disinterest) HB: Hahah to beyond oceana.. (your giveing her nothing to hang onto, its just iod after iod and closed loops, she obviously needs higher BT, by this point it is obvious she is being unreactive) ME: Mmmhh im going with friends for drinks in london some time this week, guess you could come along if you promise to behave (nothing is wrong with this) HB: Im off to ireland tomorrow ! (seems like a legit flake reason) ME: Gutted for you! bbm me when you're back (you request compliance) HB: Will do x (she complies) I kind of got the idea she wasnt keen/interested I duno would be cool to maybe get a Day2 out of this but its going to be difficult especially as shes away on holiday also... whats my play here? appreciate all feedback x Lukas didn't really see mad disinterest, you just run closed ended conversation loops over and over and mistake it for disinterest, try pumping her BT more early in convo with callback humour or something untill she is more reactive, and ask questions that can not be answered with YES, and NO, you are fine the real test is if she flakes when she gets back, after you re-initiate contact, also you seem very negative, negative validation only works if the target has a high BT, otherwise it comes off as insulting, instead of as your trying to tease

Author:	thisismekd [ Sun Jul 24, 2011 6:58 pm ]
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do not hit her up at all even if u get drunk

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Author:	Vitamin-J [ Sun Jul 24, 2011 10:15 pm ]
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Quote: do not hit her up at all even if u get drunk Can you please explain the logic behind not contacting?

Author:	thisismekd [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 12:04 am ]
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Quote: Quote: do not hit her up at all even if u get drunk Can you please explain the logic behind not contacting? she said she will contact you. the ball is in her court she could play it anyway she wants. i mean do you, but if a broad tells me shell hit me up i always wait on her i wouldnt wanna seem thirsty or desperate maybe after a period of time shoot her a ''hey how you been'' text

Author:	Vitamin-J [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 1:11 am ]
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Quote: Quote: Quote: do not hit her up at all even if u get drunk Can you please explain the logic behind not contacting? she said she will contact you. the ball is in her court she could play it anyway she wants. i mean do you, but if a broad tells me shell hit me up i always wait on her i wouldnt wanna seem thirsty or desperate maybe after a period of time shoot her a ''hey how you been'' text Given the context I have to disagree, he told her to bbm when she gets back, the convo was a little playful although there wasn't an abandonment amount of attraction created there's still enough. Don't use "hey how have you been" but something like "something reminded me of you" is totally fine and good game. An HB8 is going to get hit on several times a day and we need to make sure we stay fresh in their head and if you don't man up some other guy will. don't bug her and don't be needy but unless you've created a ton of attraction already...don't expect them to chase you. you need to get them out on a hangout/date first.

Author:	sw3rv3 [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 4:01 am ]
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call her when she's back. no texting.

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