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| Author: | R. Swerve [ Thu Jun 30, 2011 6:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Your Standard Day 2 |
Thought it would be a good idea to start a thread where we can list our go-to 1st date (the 1st date that is your favorite and/or the one you use most often). This thread should give us new ideas for day 2's that we can use ourselves. It is also an opportunity for us to help each other refine our dates so that they run more smoothly. Details on how the date facilitates both physical AND logistical escalation are especially valuable, since most of us are looking to get laid on the 1st date. I'll start: I typically ask the girl if she wants to meet up for a drink. Sounds simple to her but there is a lot of planning and details I take into consideration which she is not aware of. We usually plan on meeting at the bar at 9pm. I try to meet her at a bar with games like pool, darts, golden tee, etc. A lot of the time I don't play any of these games with my date, but it's good to go to a place that has them just in case things aren't going that well. If the conversation stalls, you can go play some pool instead of sitting there trying to come up with something to say. Games are also good at facilitating physical escalation. It may be difficult to get good kino going if you're sitting across from each other at a booth. Speaking of booths, I also try to choose a bar with semi-circle shaped booths, as opposed to booths where you are sitting across from each other or a table where you are both sitting in individual chairs. In a semi-circle booth, you can get closer and closer to each other, sit right next to each other, and touch each other much more easily. Newer bars tend to have these type of booths more often. I also get to the bar 15 minutes early to request one of these booths. I'll usually be seated before she gets there, and text her something like "got us a booth, text me when you get here and I'll come meet you at the door". After we've had one or two drinks, I'll say "let's get some dessert, there's a cool spot nearby that has great desserts". I will offer to drive there. If I haven't kissed her already, going for the kiss when we get in the car is a perfect opportunity...especially if she's one of those girls that's weird about touching and kissing in public. Sometimes it gets pretty hot and heavy in the car. Then we drive to the desert spot which is another bar that's a block away from my house. We usually get there around 10:30 or 11pm so most of the semi-circle booths are empty. I'll take her hand and lead her to one of the booths, preferably one in a more private part of the bar like the corner. We will order a dessert to share. I'll feed her a few bites and really escalate the kino at this point. She is usually much more comfortable with me than she was at the first bar, especially if we have already kissed or made out. I'll put my arm around her, put my hand on her leg, she'll lean into me, sometimes I'll massage her neck little, sometimes we'll kiss a little. At this point, I take care of the bill and suggest going back to my place. Now at this point you're supposed to have a nonsexual reason for going back to your place, so she doesn't feel like a slut who's about to get banged on the first date. Sometimes I have a good reason, sometimes I don't. If she has had a few drinks and is a little buzzed, I'll be like "let's hang out at my place for a little while you sober up, so you can drive home". Or I might say "I don't think you're sober enough to drive, you can stay in my guest room"...of course she'll end up sleeping in my bed. I've suggested going back to watch a movie, stopping by quickly just to give her a brief tour, etc. I would appreciate some more suggestions for nonsexual reasons to go back to my place, if anyone has any. I don't think mine are the greatest. This is a great first date. The only real problem is it can get a little pricey. Two or three rounds of drinks plus dessert can add up, especially if you're doing this date a few times a week. Girls usually expect you to pay on the first date. Also, any date can get old if you do it too much and feel like you're just going through the motions. Hence the reason for this thread. That's my standard day 2, looking forward to hearing yours. |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Jun 30, 2011 4:39 pm ] |
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First date will usually be somewhere cool that serves drink and also food but it not overly pricey or anything. If I get the sense closing that night is a strong possibility, then we'll bounce to a bar closer to mine, so that it's only a few minutes walk. I ALWAYS either flip a coin (whoever loses has to get the whole thing, winner gets the next time around) or get her to split the bill for dinner, but am happy to get the first round of drinks, etc. Second date will be somewhere close to me so I can definitely close that night. Third is often a comedy club, which I like. |
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