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| Author: | ShapeShifter [ Thu Jun 23, 2011 12:03 pm ] |
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So say you're on a date. Movie, food and say ice cream. You both don't have jobs, still in school and you need to pay. Now obviously the men are always expected to pay but I see this as unfair, call me new fashioned. Of course it's tradition but to what extent does she have to pay and what extent donyou have to pay? Do the great PUAs have a bunch of good lines to get away with free dates? Do great PUAs attempt free dates? What are the rules and thoughts on this? |
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| Author: | tenonine [ Thu Jun 23, 2011 12:55 pm ] |
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A lot of the most famous PUAs will tell you NEVER to pay for her on a first date, because it implies that you're desperate to win her approval, which will lower your value. But you know what else lowers your value? Being cheap. So it's really a judgment call. Whatever you decide just don't make a big deal of it. If picking up the check is gonna devastate you, then split it and save her the awkwardness of you sweating it out. Because once she feels guilty, she goes into super-nice mode and that leads nowhere. |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Jun 23, 2011 2:05 pm ] |
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You can play a game and flip a coin for it, and whoever wins gets the next time. Alternatively you can play Style's 5 lies game and if she loses she has to pay. Again, if she does lose (which 98% of girls do), offer to get it the next time. |
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