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Author:  jfp [ Mon Jun 06, 2011 10:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Is she just NOT a texter?
We've hungout 4 times previously; made out each time but haven't been able to get any alone time which is an issue but not one that won't be fixed soon. We usually get home/done with being busy at different times during the day, so...
She's always going when we're in person but she just refuses to or doesn't flirt via text. When I talk to her on the phone, she sends plenty of IOIs so I'm not worried.
Quick example of her just not being a texter.
It's like pulling teeth for smiley faces.
I've just lost interest and stopped texting with any thought. So here's an example:
Quote:
ME: Awake?
Her: (next day) I am now
*I'm still sleeping*
Me: Hey buddy sorry was knocked out Lol what's up?
Her: It's okay... just got home from _insertwaterpark_
Me: Fun..been to the wood water park in the Dells?
Her: No
^That shit pisses me off.
Me: Missing out
Her: So Iv heard
See now this here seems like a deliberate shi* test via text.
Thing about it is, when I don't respond, she'll text me again... it's all very confusing. I'm not worried because she's still going... but if someone could give me their outlook on this it'd be appreciated.

Don't get it twisted by thinking I desire smiley faces, but they do generally mean good things. Perhaps she just lacks experience in flirtatious texting. :roll:
Author:  xxSerenityxx [ Tue Jun 07, 2011 12:53 am ]
Post subject: 
You have to engage her emotions when texting.
I had the same problem a while back.
Refer to the mystery methods "bait,hook,reel,release".

If she is being unresponsive or not texting back. Freeze her out. Wait a few days to text her. And try nit to convey too much interest. Freeze out, have a very emotionally stimulate conversation or two (be the first to end it, gets her wanting more)
Then rince and repeat and invite her out to coffee (use false time constraint and be the first to leave)

This is my opinion though. Best of luck! Keep us posted!
Author:  jfp [ Tue Jun 07, 2011 3:41 am ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
You have to engage her emotions when texting.
I had the same problem a while back.
Refer to the mystery methods "bait,hook,reel,release".

If she is being unresponsive or not texting back. Freeze her out. Wait a few days to text her. And try nit to convey too much interest. Freeze out, have a very emotionally stimulate conversation or two (be the first to end it, gets her wanting more)
Then rince and repeat and invite her out to coffee (use false time constraint and be the first to leave)

This is my opinion though. Best of luck! Keep us posted!
I try all of the above repeatedly. I'm going to assume inexperience haha. Thanks though. The myster method is a great book for any and all of you that're reading this. In addition to that the NLP WorkBook is great as well.
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