PUA Forum :: Spontaneous play

Last night I got really sensual and kissed a girl - my classmate. We were a bit drunk and were the last ones, from our group of buddies, left on the dance floor. There we just let the emotions control us. She was really turned on, but at the same time said to me "let's forget about this tomorrow, right?". She also said "I like u, but let's pretend nothing happened". So now it's our secret.

To me, it looks like she's enjoyed it but is ashamed about what she's did. She doesn't want to look as easy to get, slut etc.

My question is, what does she perceive me like? Did she want to forget about the case because of the before mentioned, or because she doesn't like me? (Like, I was good to play with but overall she's not interested). And also, what to do in this situation to get her?

Things have changed a little. I have two questions:

1. Lessons. Should I make any moves during the lesson breaks? It is impossible to talk face-to-face during the lesson breaks, because the corridor is small and everyone gathers there.

2. Strategy: when we're alone, I suddenly take her on my arms, sit on the bench and start kissing her. This will be preceded by some light kino in the cinema. Is it good strategy? I won't get anywhere by talking, I have to be physical. I know this works in this case. But there aren't many occasions to do it. It was natural during dance, but normally it is not. So I have to make an opening somehow. Plus, it is possible she will show resistance when I start kissing her. I have to be confident or I end up looking like a fool.

I plan to go dancing with her. I will automatically K-close during the dance because I did this before. After that I can try your game cause she'll already be "open".

But the thing is, if I tell her "let's go to a disco alone" she will read my intentions. We can go with a group of friends but it will be harder to isolate her.

Actually I have problems with creating openings to meet her. How do you meet with girls? Do you tell them directly "let's go out"? Do you go alone or with friends?

That was very insightful. Thanks.
Today we went for a coffee and have been learning for a test toghether. It was kind of a coincidental meeting. I guess we are quite comfortable toghether. It was so enjoyable that I felt it was too short - I wonder if she felt the same way. I have communicated her that I am also dating other girls (cause she's a tester, don't know if you are familiar with Vin Di Carlo's work). Lately she's been throwing a lot of parties in her house. I wonder if she wants additional occasions to meet with me? As you said, on the next one I'll make her envious.

Also, when we are talking, we feel comfortable, but it is difficult for me to do any kino. When I do, it feels awkward and unnatural. I have to do some touching unless I want this to turn out to be a casual friendship.

By the way, where are you from?

Author:	5538858 [ Tue May 31, 2011 8:09 pm ]
Post subject:	Spontaneous play
Last night I got really sensual and kissed a girl - my classmate. We were a bit drunk and were the last ones, from our group of buddies, left on the dance floor. There we just let the emotions control us. She was really turned on, but at the same time said to me "let's forget about this tomorrow, right?". She also said "I like u, but let's pretend nothing happened". So now it's our secret. To me, it looks like she's enjoyed it but is ashamed about what she's did. She doesn't want to look as easy to get, slut etc. My question is, what does she perceive me like? Did she want to forget about the case because of the before mentioned, or because she doesn't like me? (Like, I was good to play with but overall she's not interested). And also, what to do in this situation to get her?

Author:	jfp [ Fri Jun 03, 2011 6:41 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Spontaneous play
Quote: Last night I got really sensual and kissed a girl - my classmate. We were a bit drunk and were the last ones, from our group of buddies, left on the dance floor. There we just let the emotions control us. She was really turned on, but at the same time said to me "let's forget about this tomorrow, right?". She also said "I like u, but let's pretend nothing happened". So now it's our secret. To me, it looks like she's enjoyed it but is ashamed about what she's did. She doesn't want to look as easy to get, slut etc. My question is, what does she perceive me like? Did she want to forget about the case because of the before mentioned, or because she doesn't like me? (Like, I was good to play with but overall she's not interested). And also, what to do in this situation to get her? It's probably the aforementioned issues. Thing is, contacting her will put you automatically at the disadvantage. How long has it been since this incident and has she talked to you since then?

Author:	5538858 [ Mon Jun 13, 2011 11:03 am ]
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Things have changed a little. I have two questions: 1. Lessons. Should I make any moves during the lesson breaks? It is impossible to talk face-to-face during the lesson breaks, because the corridor is small and everyone gathers there. 2. Strategy: when we're alone, I suddenly take her on my arms, sit on the bench and start kissing her. This will be preceded by some light kino in the cinema. Is it good strategy? I won't get anywhere by talking, I have to be physical. I know this works in this case. But there aren't many occasions to do it. It was natural during dance, but normally it is not. So I have to make an opening somehow. Plus, it is possible she will show resistance when I start kissing her. I have to be confident or I end up looking like a fool.

Author:	jfp [ Mon Jun 13, 2011 4:10 pm ]
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Quote: Things have changed a little. I have two questions: 1. Lessons. Should I make any moves during the lesson breaks? It is impossible to talk face-to-face during the lesson breaks, because the corridor is small and everyone gathers there. 2. Strategy: when we're alone, I suddenly take her on my arms, sit on the bench and start kissing her. This will be preceded by some light kino in the cinema. Is it good strategy? I won't get anywhere by talking, I have to be physical. I know this works in this case. But there aren't many occasions to do it. It was natural during dance, but normally it is not. So I have to make an opening somehow. Plus, it is possible she will show resistance when I start kissing her. I have to be confident or I end up looking like a fool. I wouldn't just attack her Something I have done is: looks at girl she gives a questioning look or asks "what" "I'm trying so hard not to kiss you right now" tilts her head up with hand kiss Game. Also something I'd give a whirl: Walking with her at night out for just a stroll with the two of you or sommit after the movie, could even try this during but it'd be a bit less easy --> Stop, turn, one second, "what?", kiss, look at her, kiss her again; "okay thanks" or just make out with her.

Author:	5538858 [ Mon Jun 13, 2011 8:36 pm ]
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I plan to go dancing with her. I will automatically K-close during the dance because I did this before. After that I can try your game cause she'll already be "open". But the thing is, if I tell her "let's go to a disco alone" she will read my intentions. We can go with a group of friends but it will be harder to isolate her. Actually I have problems with creating openings to meet her. How do you meet with girls? Do you tell them directly "let's go out"? Do you go alone or with friends?

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Author:	jfp [ Tue Jun 14, 2011 2:46 pm ]
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Quote: I plan to go dancing with her. I will automatically K-close during the dance because I did this before. After that I can try your game cause she'll already be "open". But the thing is, if I tell her "let's go to a disco alone" she will read my intentions. We can go with a group of friends but it will be harder to isolate her. Actually I have problems with creating openings to meet her. How do you meet with girls? Do you tell them directly "let's go out"? Do you go alone or with friends? I tend to go with a wing or two if I haven't hungout with the girl alone before. Unless I feel like I've gotten enough comfort with her that would've made her feel comfortable enough with me that she would go and/or be okay with hanging out alone with me. If the gil is comfortable enough then I'll bring her to my house or I'll bring her to a movie. I despise spending money so I'd rather watch it at the home theater. I also hate bringing girls to dances because why would I bring candy to a candy shop? There'll be others there that I'm interested in or want to get with so why would I bring a target. It's just a distraction for me. I prefer to isolate. So a good house party wouldn't be out of the question. At such venues I get other girls to give me IOIs and DHV me in front of the initial target. But if you have to meet her there, don't rush the K-close. Calibrate, build sexual tension, make her want it. Make SURE she wants it, then proceed. If she's being shady, don't feel bad or let down. It happens. Girls are unpredictable creatures. Simply find another one to dance with and have fun/make yourself look good.

Author:	5538858 [ Tue Jun 14, 2011 5:27 pm ]
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That was very insightful. Thanks. Today we went for a coffee and have been learning for a test toghether. It was kind of a coincidental meeting. I guess we are quite comfortable toghether. It was so enjoyable that I felt it was too short - I wonder if she felt the same way. I have communicated her that I am also dating other girls (cause she's a tester, don't know if you are familiar with Vin Di Carlo's work). Lately she's been throwing a lot of parties in her house. I wonder if she wants additional occasions to meet with me? As you said, on the next one I'll make her envious. Also, when we are talking, we feel comfortable, but it is difficult for me to do any kino. When I do, it feels awkward and unnatural. I have to do some touching unless I want this to turn out to be a casual friendship. By the way, where are you from?

Author:	jfp [ Tue Jun 14, 2011 5:36 pm ]
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Quote: That was very insightful. Thanks. Today we went for a coffee and have been learning for a test toghether. It was kind of a coincidental meeting. I guess we are quite comfortable toghether. It was so enjoyable that I felt it was too short - I wonder if she felt the same way. I have communicated her that I am also dating other girls (cause she's a tester, don't know if you are familiar with Vin Di Carlo's work). Lately she's been throwing a lot of parties in her house. I wonder if she wants additional occasions to meet with me? As you said, on the next one I'll make her envious. Also, when we are talking, we feel comfortable, but it is difficult for me to do any kino. When I do, it feels awkward and unnatural. I have to do some touching unless I want this to turn out to be a casual friendship. By the way, where are you from? I'm from the midwest. Here are some easy examples of kino that I use on a daily basis, and I mean, with EVERY girl. Has not failed to work. I've got numerous complicated yet easy-to-learn handshakes that I show girls. At the end or beginning of each hand shake I make them do a twirl. This works exceptionally well. They have fun, while not even realizing they're connecting with me. At the end of the handshake I grade them (horribly of course), they haven't earned a high grade. Say they need to work a bit harder for it. Then I'll allow them to have one more try, and then give them a slightly higher grade, tell them to practice, and say okay I guess you've earned one hug. My hugs, I always squeeze to the point near pain whilst picking them up and twirling them. They enjoy it. Try these.

Author:	5538858 [ Tue Jun 14, 2011 6:50 pm ]
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I will definitely try these. I may surprise you, but I am from the central Europe. I read somewhere that calling in the middle of the night works well. It is good idea to do anything that will excite her before sleeping. Like texting casually and then sending her a message "what do u think about me, tell me honestly" which takes her 30 minutes to answer. And no, I am not needy, it was justified of me to send a message like that (we always avoided the topic of our kissing in the conversation).

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