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Author:  Impetumus [ Thu May 26, 2011 11:24 am ]
Post subject:  I must be an emotional IDIOT... HELP!!!
Please guys, help me...

We were at my place, she was ready to have sex (a friend who we have in common told me that) and I blew it.

So we met two weeks ago,and I actually lied to her by saying that I am going to college, even though I am still in high scool (I am 2 years younger than her).
And ME, IDIOT, decided to tell her that when she came by my place. I just couldn't sleep with girl based on lie. I told her my age, and she said that because of that we can only be friends.

Then we started talking, and we kind of got in a fight, I was miscalibrated, and forgot about my goal completely ( I wasn't going to give up on seducing her just because I am two years younger), and I have said something to her because of which she just turned around and cried.

It felt horrible. I was hurt by lot of people in life, and I have always managed to deal with it. But, when I hurt someone, it is just something that completely f*cks me up, she didn't deserve it.

And the best part is, that I was quite drunk, and I CAN'T EVEN REMEMBER WHAT I SAID TO HER. Guys, please help me, she won't even talk with me, or even look at me. I scre*ed up completely, how can I fix it?????
Author:  Infamous110 [ Fri May 27, 2011 10:37 pm ]
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I'd put forth an argument that you're not mature enough to be drinking if I thought it'd make a difference. In reality most people have been there.

If she won't talk to you there's not a huge amount you can do.

You should have told her after you'd had sex at the very least. It's an experience that bonds for most girls. If you can't sleep with her based on a lie then you shouldn't have told her a lie.
Author:  AdamThomas [ Sat May 28, 2011 6:32 pm ]
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If you can't sleep with her based on a lie then you shouldn't have told her a lie.
Exactly. I doubt there's much you can do to fix it now, but at least you've learned not to lie yeah? I mean you must at least have some game if she wanted to shag you, it was only this that let you down.
Author:  Impetumus [ Mon May 30, 2011 1:18 pm ]
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I'd put forth an argument that you're not mature enough to be drinking if I thought it'd make a difference. In reality most people have been there.

If she won't talk to you there's not a huge amount you can do.

You should have told her after you'd had sex at the very least. It's an experience that bonds for most girls. If you can't sleep with her based on a lie then you shouldn't have told her a lie.


Yeah, it wouldn't because in my culture we are introduced to alcohol as youngsters, it's just normal, and it would be iresponsible to blame alcohol for this.

So, this weekend I was with her and her friends out. I basically wanted to make her jealous, so we were all having fun, I was talking to everyone, flirting with all of her friends, and then I started talking to one of her friends.

We bonded really fast, and I took her out of the club. we were talking and joking, it was real bonding time between us. When we came back to the club, she wasn't there, but friends of hers said that she was completely jealous, which means that she still wants me.

HERE IS MY QUESTION:
Her friend who I was bonding with last week wants to sleep with me. Should I do it, or should I try to seduce some other girl and then rub it in her nose, or should I just drop the attempt of jealousy plotline???
Author:  LVATTEMPTS [ Mon May 30, 2011 1:30 pm ]
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I think your putting too much though into it at this point... if this new girl that wants to sleep with you is hot, than do it.... smell the roses along the way man, dont get so caught up in the ONE girl you messed up that all of your interations with women are altered because of the ONE girl, as well... if your this caught up about the first girl, itll affect your game on her when the time comes again, more than likely
Author:  Impetumus [ Mon May 30, 2011 1:33 pm ]
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If you can't sleep with her based on a lie then you shouldn't have told her a lie.
Exactly. I doubt there's much you can do to fix it now, but at least you've learned not to lie yeah? I mean you must at least have some game if she wanted to shag you, it was only this that let you down.


Well, I actually have pretty solid game even though I am pretty new to all this, but I think this was luck, not the game. Yeah, if nothing else, I will never lie again, or if I do and if I am sure that I'll be seing her again, then I'll tell her that same night I meet the girl.

The problem wasn't really in my age, but to the stuff I told her, to the negs. I thought that she has enourmes ego, and as it turns out, she doesn't.
She is gorgeus, I would say she is a 9 with comfidence of a 5, or 6...

So, basically I believe that this was luck, but the friend of hers who wants to sleep with me now, well, that was my game, that was The Shiit. I seduced her friend, so now I am hoping to introduce some jeaousy plotline between them.

Do you have any tips, or advices?
Author:  Impetumus [ Mon May 30, 2011 1:42 pm ]
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I think your putting too much though into it at this point... if this new girl that wants to sleep with you is hot, than do it.... smell the roses along the way man, dont get so caught up in the ONE girl you messed up that all of your interations with women are altered because of the ONE girl, as well... if your this caught up about the first girl, itll affect your game on her when the time comes again, more than likely

Well, I guess that I'll just have to let go of her, I'll let the time do its thing.
I mean, I knew that learning the game will be hard, and that my ego will suffer, but I didn't expect that I'll hurt other people so much when I'm miscalibrated with negs.

It seems that it's just the toll of the progress. I'll take your advice and do the friend, and hopefully then, when the time is right, I'll do her... Thanks dude... :wink:
Author:  Impetumus [ Sat Jun 04, 2011 2:25 am ]
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Hey guys, I just wanted to give you my input on situation.


The girl who was mad at me, approached me today and said that she wanted to straight things out, and I was listening to her, and then I figured out that she has misheard some of my words. Basically, it started as misunderstanding but then I screwed it up.

It doesn't matter what have I said, what's important is that she has some feelings for me, but that after all the things I have told her, she lost trust in me, and told me that I will have to work really hard to get it back.

She has feelings for me, and she wants me to work for her trust. Somehow I don't think I will be doing her friend anytime soon, even though us two were openly talking about that how we should have casual, no attachments sex really, really soon....

I got myself in some pretty deep sh*t, haven't I?
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