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Author:  omri333 [ Thu May 19, 2011 4:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Getting her number

Hey,
The other day I met these two amazing girls at a meditation class. One of them is very pretty and smart, i'd say an 8. And the other is just wow.. , 9 or 10. The other one isn't as smart though and it was harder to connect with her.
Anyways, I'm 17 and they were in uninversity, im guessing they were 20-22. So it's kinda wierd.. the age difference is pretty big.
Anyways, they seemed very interested with me and I had nice conversations with them indivisually.. problem is though, I didn't number close because I AFC'd and I was scared that because I'm young they'll think it's weird.
Anyways, the person who's in charge of their class is their friend - so i can email him and get their numbers.
Problem is, I might meet them again (this class was more of a one time thing, not a regular) - and they might think its weird if I ask for their numbers so indirectly.
What do you think? Am I being too AFC?

Author:  Amadieus [ Thu May 19, 2011 5:00 pm ]
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Never get a girls number threw somebody else, just don't.

And asking aint that hard really. Just say u had a nice time talking to her and tell her to give her number to you.

Remember tell her to give it, not ask it. In a gentle way!

Author:  SiNfUl [ Thu May 19, 2011 5:03 pm ]
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Getting their number from the instructor is definitely in the 'creepy zone'...especially if you did not build enough attraction. I recommend you go for the number close the next time you feel a good vibe from a woman. But keep in mind, being friendly towards you doesn't necessarily mean they are attracted to you. See what I'm saying?

The age difference can definitely be a factor, especially if they are old enough to get into bars and drink.

Author:  omri333 [ Thu May 19, 2011 5:07 pm ]
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Yea ur right. I'm reluctant to say that they were attracted to me, but I don't know.
At the end when I said goodbye, I tried 60's method of not letting go of the handshake, it worked. (I mean she didn't let go until I did cuz it was too long and I chickened out.)
But the thing is, if i don't see them ever ago, then it's better than not trying at all no? I can wait till the next time, but that can be a few months or never..

Author:  SiNfUl [ Thu May 19, 2011 5:17 pm ]
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If you never see them again, oh well....if it takes a few months...that's fine too. It doesn't matter, or at least it shouldn't. This is not the last time you will have an opportunity to game an HB8-BH9 or whatever. You are putting way to much value on these chicks (bad idea).

Don't consume yourself with a possible missed opportunity. Learn from it and move on my friend.

Author:  omri333 [ Thu May 19, 2011 5:18 pm ]
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True True, problem is I don't meet too many women that often - so I value them more.

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