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Author:  havona_jam [ Tue May 17, 2011 6:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Bubbly in person - nonreceptive over text / FB

Been doing PU properly for about 6 months (see my field reports in the field reports section), and been doing pretty ok for the most part. I've recently being hanging with a girl from my social circle, pretty damn close to my personal 10. In person she's real bubbly, and there are quite a few IOIs. I haven't k closed her yet... because:

She's really distant via text / facebook... I'll be trying to set something up and she'll appear into it BUT add something like "I'll see"... then bail. Now, I've KNOWN this girl for prob about 2 years, but we never really spoke at all, to be fair. Recently we spent time together working on a certain project that required us to spend the guts of two days together...

Now I've invited her out to a couple of high value events, she's shown middling interest, and cancelled what i had planned today... The bubbliness & IOIs in person is throwing me off, big time... If she was as distant in person, I would definately not be confused, I would simply move on...

Any advice on this?

A) Do I call her out on it, casually - along the lines of "Hey listen I've been inviting you to alot of cool things lately that I think you'd really love, but you're making it difficult for us to spend time together, whats up?"

or

B) Tell her over text / FB that I think she's awesome and THATS why i wanna spend time with her...

Both pretty AFC, i know, but gaming isn't getting me anywhere...

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