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| Author: | JArAFC [ Sat May 14, 2011 5:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Am I getting played ? |
I think Im getting played ? Met a HB9 1 week ago in a nightclub, spent 5 hours talking teasing, escalating, kino tells me she has a boyfriend blah blah.. I dont react.. multiple serial shit tests that a blew away. My game is very direct and cocky/ funny/ sexy and I managed to establish that i'm a prize etc ... Moved on mostly because I got distracted.. she followes me and sits down next to me as I m builing rapport with another HB9. kiss and # closed. she calls and texts me daily ,a few days ago at 3 am she calls me ..... oh she s also 6 inches taller than me ..met up a few times for cofee cuz she was nearby.. keeps referring back to her BF when she feels things are escalating and she's uncomfortable... and a few times has gotten angry, but I managed to make it her fault and get her to apologize and qualify herself. She says it feels better to be bad than to feel guilt.... I just disqualified her in a text message about 10 minutes ago... waiting for a response.. and I really dont know how to take it from here, I havent made any progress in my escalation and all my attempts are bounced back on the I have a BF thing . I feel like im just bridging time.. any input would be helpful |
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| Author: | JArAFC [ Sat May 14, 2011 6:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | update:this is realtime |
Maybe i should be twittering this... Trying to prevent getting put in the friend zone... says she likes being and talking to me.. says I make her feel ... and wont finish... I texted her disqualifying her.. saying its too bad she's so innocent thought maybe she could teach me a few things. have teased her severaql times about being blonde. and this what she writes back Haha. doesnt make sense , what did you think i was gonna teach you if you really thought i was that innocent : ) got the fact that you wanna fuck ( i'm blonde yes but not that stupid) i\m still gonna stick to my guns and say i enjoy talking to you : ) |
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| Author: | KayB [ Sat May 14, 2011 8:46 pm ] |
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First I just wanna say that Im not particularly fond of girls in a relationship being gamed. How would you feel if someone did that to your gf? But anyway, people have free will and choose their way  In this situation, I would keep sporadic contact with her. Have her as a friend of fb, let her see that you get attention from other girls etc. She is obviosly on to you and 'your plan' on getting her to bed  ,so I would just play it cool and wait and see if she gets single.
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| Author: | Infamous110 [ Sat May 14, 2011 8:50 pm ] |
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Tell her you will have beautiful children. I'm kidding. Ignore that text; it roughly translates to 'I feel good to know that you want me, and therefore want you to stick around and massage my ego.' Which one did you kiss? Give her the plausible deniability she needs and get her over to watch a movie or teach you to cook toast or whatever. How smoothly are you escalating? I wonder if you're moving too quickly if she gets uncomfortable... Also you spent 5 hours with her on meet? Good lord. |
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| Author: | JArAFC [ Sat May 14, 2011 9:52 pm ] |
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Yeah I know bad karma , I dont like it either, thats why I backed off and engaged the other HB9 but she followed and reengaged several times. Yeah clubs close at 5 30 am here I arrived shortly after midnight so yeah on and off for almost 5 hours with several distractions in between : ) ( 1 week ago ) tonight is her university pre graduation party night and she s texted my 5 times and called me twice. I ve made myself unavailable and disqualified her, but she keeps contacting me. When I try to escalate she feeds on it like an ego boost and tries to string me. even tho I accuse her of trying to pick me up. no I think my escalation was/ is smooth and gradual. its like she s got alarms set up that alert her when she gets too aroused. I dont know how to crack this one or if I should. I might have to bail... |
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| Author: | JArAFC [ Sat May 14, 2011 10:29 pm ] |
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Damnit !! I texted her that she couldnt admit to herself how I made her feel. then I turned the table on her and said maybe we should just be friends... she s qualifying herself to me on the phone right now as we speak.... |
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