dude, you have a case of one-itis. ditch the friend, and just take the 8. like the guys above me said, put her ass in the friend zone. dont pay much attention to her, act like you just dont care that you're there. only be her freind. treat her like an old freind you havent talked to in awhile, but you dont really care to. let her know that if she's not gonna make some shit happen, that you're gone. i was going through the same thing awhile back. the girl ended up eating out of my hand by applying this method. turn the tables on her bro. treat her the way she treated you. one word responses on text messages, act uninterested.. text other girls and leave your cell phone out, when she sees that "sarah" has been texting you, it will drive her crazy thinking about what you 2 are talking about. just trust me on this man. the beauty of it all, i fucked up with the girl i had one-itis for, i fucked her friends and then she wouldnt take me back when she found out. i was a retard. but once i did get her back, i realized that i didnt wanna be with her. you will soon realize it too.. from the sound of it, you're taking her to a bowling alley, you're young. my advice, dont date. dont get a girlfriend. instead, use this time to talk to many girls, learn the female psyche on many different personalities and personas. learn how to hold conversations with different sorts of people. and i promise you, when you reach our age, and you've turned this into an art, you will look back adn thank yourself. because then, you'll be in our shoes. offering your advice.