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Author:  Jowai32 [ Thu May 05, 2011 3:56 am ]
Post subject:  Opened HB with a boyfriend who lives miles away

Hey guys, so I just opened this HB couple days ago at a bus stop, it turns out that she goes to my school. The next day we met up and have a quick lunch together, told her some DHV story. After that I ask her out for a dinner this Saturday, she said okay but also mention about her boyfriend who lives back where she's from.

*Here a little background for both of use, we both new to the city, she lives in a small town where it's on the other side of the country, she said she hated it doesn't wanna go back.

So here's the middle of the txt conversation

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Me: Ha that's y I'm trying to make it up to you by bringing you to a dinner.

HB: But I can't go as a date or anything I have a boyfriend. So it's just a friendly thing right?

Me: Wow, is that what you think it is? It's just a hang out

HB: Okay! I thought it was a hang out too I was just making sure lol

Me: Why do you have to make things so awkward? lol
Now I don't even wanna talk to you

HB: What! :( I just wanted to make sure since you called me cutie. sadness

After 15 mins (I was thinking how to response to that)

Me: Just kidding, you know you can ask your bf to come with us
(showing I'm not effected by the fact that she has a bf)

HB: Oh sweet. I thought you hated me you jerk!

And she agreed to meet up this Saturday.


So I was thinking during the dinner I might have to do more kino, and do the cube game on her, cause I ready fall into the friend zone a little bit here.
Any advice what should I do here guys? Thanks

Author:  Breezey [ Thu May 05, 2011 4:04 am ]
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Yeah man, sounds like you disqualified yourself a little bit there. Definitely need to take some action to avoid the friend zone. I'd advise lots of kino if possible (depends on table setup). Also try to sexually frame as much as possible. If you get her in the right mindset, she won't even begin to think about her boyfriend. Keep her thinking about YOU the whole time you're there, and keep her focused on feeling good while she's with you.

Remember, like David DeAngelo said, "Attraction isn't a choice".

Author:  Jowai32 [ Thu May 05, 2011 4:15 am ]
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Thanks Breezey

Really good advice men I'll definitely do that, but I only know so much about kino game, I know the trust test and that's it.

And what exactly should I do to sexually frame, sorry I'm kinda new to PU.

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