****For some reason this forum cuts my message, so I ll continue here***
Her friends started to come. First it was one guy who didn't do anything was just sitting at the bar and reading a paper. Problem was she was getting distracted by him (and I think he came bcause he wants her and my presence was an unpleasant surprise for him). Then two other of her friends came and went for the pool game, then her ex came who is friends with all of them and looks in love with her. she was totally distracted by them and they drifted her attention from me.
It wouldn't be a problem would I be i shape but the accumulated fatigue from the day started feeling + i had three beers and when you are tired like that ti is NOT a good idea. I could hardly think, my eyes were closing and I was feeling that i am getting dull and boring. i started feeling some strange awkwardness, si I decided to do the best thing I could: get her out for a smoke.
There, I told her that I am going to leave after finishing my beer bcause I am tired. I asked her if she wants to get a drink maybe in out of work hours, so we can chill when she is not working. she said it can be a weekend in 2 weeks bcause next weekend she is working and during the week she does not go out bcause of her new job(sales, she just started and works like 12 hours a day to get good in it).
I couldnt understand was it a light rejection or she was sincere, just told her that 2 weeks is a kinda long time but she was firm about it.
There was some cigarette smoke blowing on her when she was standing so I took her arm to move her form it and got a very weird reaction, like she got scared. I was touching her a bit before (arm, hand) and wasnt gettign anything like that.
Also, when I told her that I am getting really tired she said something like "and beer does not help" I laughed at it because 3 beers obviusly cant make me drunk (got a good tolerance) but maybe she thought that I got drunk?
Bottom line, I think I had a GREAT start but lost some points at the end and need yur help to tell me what should I do???
Should I wait to her call/text? Or call/text her myself? Now or later? should i let her know (in indirect way of course) that I was not drunk just dead tired or just ignore the subject at all? How should I handle the 2 weeks thing?
I really need your advice because I really feel that my game is much worse with her than usual (still it worked for some reason) because I am completely stunned by her appearance.
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