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Author:  Scarypm [ Sat Apr 30, 2011 3:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Is this over?? If so where did i go wrong!!
Hey Guys!!
Im new to the game, i did my first ever approach 4 days ago at a Bootcamp and have already had 3 kcloses, numerous number closes and 2 Fcloses :)

Anyway i fclosed this girl on tuesday then text her that day with no response but i then tried later asking her if she wanted to go out. She replied and we went out, had a good time. I kissed her alot, held hands etc but she didnt ask me in (she already had said how tired she was cause she was at uni allday and we went to sleep at about 6am)
Ive text her since saying had good time blah blah and also once more 'haha just remembered teaching you ...(something i showed her that night) but ive had no replies!

I finally text her one last time to see if she was free on sunday( probally too much i know but its done now)

I felt she was into me... she was kissing me, and really chatty asking me questions and basically really engaged etc
But ive had no contact since the date, id be happy with a 'not into you text'

Basically what can i do and if nothing what should i have done!!
Im not too bothered but would like to learn from my mistakes
Be brutally honest i will not learn otherwise

Cheers Guys
Author:  squarelife [ Sun May 01, 2011 1:24 am ]
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From what I gained from the story, it seems like she was just down to have some fun.Nothing really more. some girls are like that. believe it or not, it is very possible for girl to want to have sex, but not want to get too involved personally. I'm not saying thats what happened, but given the lack of details on how you gamed her, it seems it could be a possibility.I'm glad you realized that you went a little text crazy..but its no big deal..well eh.. it kinda is lol

Cant really say you did anything "wrong" besides the text issue..
I would have actually called her to see if she wanted to hang out Sunday, only because i don't like texting and it gets too drawn out sometimes.

My best advice would be to wait it out and dont contact her. let her come to you.

the sex couldnt have been THAT bad man.. hahaha i kid i kid.
Author:  Luda [ Sun May 01, 2011 1:32 am ]
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"blow me or blow me out" well in this case she did blow you lol... Anyway i say to make sure that its over between you two just call her up and tell her you want to meet up and then shut the f*ck up. If she agrees then great but if she doesnt and gives an excuse then shes not interested and you should forget about her so you can focus on other women who have better leads
Author:  ?uestion [ Fri May 06, 2011 1:08 pm ]
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My personal motto is that you should either text a girl immediately after you see her or wait at least 24 hours. I've run into this a few times, where girls seemed incredibly interested, and then never wanted to hang out again. If rapport is broken and you have to send two texts in a row, don't say "hey, what are you up to?" or ask her if she wants to hang out. Make it about something random or funny.

Neediness is deadly.... before and after the F-close. It's the same as asking a girl if she's having fun or if she needs anything during a date. Don't, whatever you do, do it.
Author:  JSmooth [ Fri May 06, 2011 2:47 pm ]
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I agree that you give it one more shot and if she's down to hang out then great and if not then move on.

As for learning from your mistakes and learning not to repeat this mistake for next time. It sounds like based on the limited insight we have that she is actually going through "Buyer's remorse" with having sex with you so soon OR as it was mentioned that's all she was down for.

Only you'll be able to know for sure by knowing exactly how much if any comfort you really spent time building. I mean true comfort of getting to know her, letting her get to know you, hanging out, being interested in her, all prior to sex. If that is lacking then you get buyer's remorse and her feeling bad about the situation. Which in that case it's easier to just not talk to you then tell you the truth, as people naturally take the path of least resistence.

Anyways, I wish you luck on your future endeavors.

JLS
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