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Author:  Scarypm [ Thu Apr 28, 2011 10:52 pm ]
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Hey Guys!!
Im new to the game, i did my first ever approach 4 days ago at a Bootcamp and have already had 3 kcloses, numerous number closes and 2 Fcloses :)

Anyway i fclosed this girl on tuesday then text her that day with no response but i then tried later asking her if she wanted to go out. She replied and we went out, had a good time. I kissed her alot, held hands etc but she didnt ask me in (she already had said how tired she was cause she was at uni allday and we went to sleep at about 6am)
Ive text her since saying had good time blah blah and also once more 'haha just remembered teaching you ...(something i showed her that night) but ive had no replies!

I felt she was into me... she was kissing me, and really chatty asking me questions and basically really engaged etc
But should i worry about the no replies?? Could she just not be a texteing type of person??

Cheers Guys
Author:  jaminv [ Fri Apr 29, 2011 12:08 am ]
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How was the sex? ... for her?

Tired sounds like an excuse. Saying it early sounds like she set up the excuse early because she knew early on that she didn't want to end the date with sex. I could be wrong, but that's what it sounds like.

It could be that she's ashamed of herself and doing some anti-slut damage control, maybe trying to qualify why she slept with you by going out with you again. It could be that the sex wasn't very good. It could be that she's actually suprised you called her after a one-night stand and doesn't want to set an overly sexual tone too early. It could also be a combination of any of these things or something I'm not considering.

I think your best bet would be to talk openly about sex with her. Try to find out what she likes. A first time with a person can be bad because you haven't learned about their body yet. If you can start to learn about her body and what she likes, this would repair pretty much any of the problems I listed above. That is, if you can get her speaking openly about sex. It sounds like you've already got it going pretty well, but I'd make your encounter less about kissing and more about touching and communicating. I don't think it's AFC at all to communicate openly about sex. Quite the contrary.
Author:  Scarypm [ Fri Apr 29, 2011 12:52 am ]
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Id say the sex for her was good. Im very generous and like to please a girl. She defo seemed to enjoy it. The tired thing i think was true cause she had been at uni all day from 9am and we went to sleep around 6am. She then met me at 6pm after finishing Uni at 5pm, where i didnt have uni so i went to bed all day lol

I think talking about sex is agood way to go though and completly agree with the whole learning her body etc and also she said after we slept together that she didnt expect anything from me and she been hurt before and that if i want it to be aone night thing to just say so but i said i wanted to see her again
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