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Author:  dodger47 [ Mon Apr 11, 2011 8:45 am ]
Post subject:  Brand new to the day two.
Alright boys, here's my problem.

After much practice, I've finally perfected my endgame and have at long last landed a few full closes. The most recent full close took place last friday, and it was... different. This is the only time I've found myself actually wanting a day 2, and I have no idea how to go about it. I left her place at 5am, and she made me promise to call her the next day, so I did. The conversation was brief and she said she was busy for the next couple of days but wanted to hang out again. I texted her after our conversation on saturday, and she responded positively. Today I shot off a "did you have fun at your party!?" and she never responded...

I could be reading way too much into this, but I really don't want to fuck this up. Did I come off as desperate or something? Now I'm thinking I just shouldn't have said anything for a while after that friday, and I'm planning on not engaging her for a while. Am I too late? Did I already lower my value to her? Is there anyway to salvage this? I feel naked here fellas, what do I do, and any advice for future day twos so I don't wind up in this predicament again?
Author:  The_Boss_ [ Mon Apr 11, 2011 10:55 am ]
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Dude how have you perfected your end game? Also what is end game? Breaking up with girls? I think thats end game...

Or do you mean sex and youre saying you have perfected sex? I dont think anyone has man..

Anyway, Im in a really similar situation as you RIGHT NOW. I fucked a girl and actually still liked her the next day, which is a rare occurance for me. The problem is, if thats the case, you already have more at stake, so we might come across as too needy and need to be careful to play it cool and not let her know this at first.

6 days ago I met the girl in a night club, went back to hers and fucked her, then left at 4am too in a cab.

I waited the next day for her to reply first. I almost ALWAYS do this, so you dont come across as the needier one.

I think by you calling first and so soon you kinda lost your cool, but its not the end of the world.

also the text she didnt reply to, was a really bad text to send. If I was a girl I probably wouldnt reply to it either. But I also sent one saying "how was your weekend?" and got no reply. so youre not alone.. these girls know how to fuck with us!!!

To be honest I dont know how to go about the next stage perfectly. Ultimately you need to try set up a day two, and obviously if they dont always reply to texts its gonna make it more difficult.

What im doing after the no reply: avoid contact with her for a few days.. act like its not a big deal, and itll also help yourself see that it really isnt a big deal.

Then im gonna have a crack at asking her to come around for a few drinks. Ill keep you posted. Good luck man and let me know how it goes for you too
Author:  dodger47 [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 2:40 am ]
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I really, really appreciate the advice. I did totally lose my cool there, and I'm kind of embarrassed I even wound up in that head space at all.

Oh, the end game I was referring to was my personal goal, to be able to get a snl whenever I wanted. I've been stuck for a while not being able to get anything more than a kiss close, and I just recently learned how to extract girls to a different location and escalate things.

Unfortunately now that I'm here, I've found myself wanting more...

I guess my new question is how long should I wait before I call her again? I was thinking maybe a week or two. Or maybe I should just roll off and not hold my breath.

Whatever the case, in the meantime, I'm going to take your advice and keep myself out there in the party scene. Because you're right, it isn't a big deal. Thanks for your help friend.
Author:  xJokerz [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 11:40 am ]
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Hey gentlemans 8).

I agree with Jando but it really depends on what happened between the girl and you.

1. If you just talked to her, had a nice conversation and got her number the best thing is not to call her. She won´t have any ponit in seeing you because she isn´t attracted.

2. If you had a makeout/fucked her with it depends if you/she wants more. Usually I test it with a litle routine:

-I am going to study next year in XY so we won´t be able to se us often. Thats why I don´t think it will work with us.

My weekend girl told me we would manage it and she will try to visit me as often as she can.

If it was just a makeout/one-night-stand for her you will notice it.

If it was more for you and her I would call her 2 days after.

If she doesn´t answer the phone or call you back forget about it.

Long story short: It really depends on the sitatuion. If the situation is still hot I would call her 2 days after and make up a date.
Author:  The_Boss_ [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 2:41 pm ]
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Joker I might be hearing you wrong... buy im confused.

Do you mean you say this to them "-I am going to study next year in XY so we won´t be able to se us often. Thats why I don´t think it will work with us." ?

Why would you even be ready to mention the phrase "us" to someone youve only met for one night.

Dont think what will work? a long term relationship?

If you show youre given a long term relationship with someone some thought after just meeting them for one night... then you can be sure you will scare them off completely... you might get the odd few clingers who will respond to this... but thats not the type of girl you want anyway is it...
Author:  xJokerz [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 3:46 pm ]
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The reason for this is that she qualyfies herself.

It works in the sameway like : We would never get along because you are so XYand I am so YZ( think it´s from MM but not sure). Ofc mine doesn´t fit for girls you just met in a club. I always used the routine above but this one worked on my girls I met the follwing weekend where I had enough attraction and atleast a makeout.

I only use this when I got enough attraction and I am building up the comfort for FC (depends if the girl is looking for a 1-night-stand or for a LTR. But in my age the girls need atleast the hope that it can become a LTR, altogh it never will become one.
Author:  The_Boss_ [ Sat Apr 23, 2011 1:10 pm ]
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hey did anything ever end up happening for your case?

The one I was talking about - I saw her again, but it turned out she was with someone else and I was her 'other guy.' I think if I play it right ill be able to keep her around for a while for some action on the sly/ or when she stops seeing him, she'll probably give me a call. thats about it tho!
Author:  xJokerz [ Sat Apr 23, 2011 3:40 pm ]
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So you want to wait for her until she takes you ? :P

I could write a long post but i don´t have much time so i make it short

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Author:  The_Boss_ [ Mon Apr 25, 2011 2:28 pm ]
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So you want to wait for her until she takes you ? :P

I could write a long post but i don´t have much time so i make it short

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by wait, i mean fuck numerous girls in the meantime
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