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Author:  Jerry Green [ Sat Apr 09, 2011 4:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Need help with the close! Help!

Hey guys,

So last week I hooked up with this HB 10 and now she's playing way too hard to get for it to be funny. I saw her yesterday and we were flirting a bit during the day. Then I saw her again at night with her friends and mine and she wasn't having any of it. I went to talk, she pulled away. We were talking, she want having any of it. Kept going on like this until I just decided to go flirt with other girls and I noticed that she had left.

She was drunk at this time, but I still feel like she's playing way too hard to get.

How do I maneuver here?

Author:  squarelife [ Sat Apr 09, 2011 11:33 pm ]
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Brother,

If I were you, I would freeze her out and move on. last thing you want to do is to keep chasing her and come off as needy. Being too needy is an attraction killer and it gives her all the power. You need to make her desire you. Do this by internalizing the idea that you don't need her for shit! Then, make it your reality. You're fine with her and fine without her. Game other girls and disconnect from outcome dependence.

now go play some game! : )

Author:  Loupe [ Tue Apr 19, 2011 3:11 pm ]
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You could try using disqualifiers the more hard to get she is such as:

(said aloud) note to self, do not date this girl
Its a shame your elbows are too pointy
(on an opinion) you actually liked that

Or try reframing. like if she compliments you say something like 'hey I'm not that easy' or 'I'm not that kinda guy.

Any body language that conveys disinterest or an urge to move on, however use this subtley, like wandering eyes, slight shift in direction your body is facing etc.

Anything to flip the script and make her chase you. Have the balls to make a few alterations to your game. It will only amplify attraction unless you overdo it then she'll think your a dick.

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