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| Author: | Fox Aston [ Tue Mar 29, 2011 2:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Sexier Role-Play Over SMS |
The following article concerns SMS: Role-playing can be an important tool for enhancing attraction between two people, re-igniting a dwindling spark and for escaping your usual sex roles with a bit of creative fun. Role-playing allows us to drop our guard and become someone else, even if it is only momentarily, and experience our sexual side without fear of judgement from anyone else. SMS offers a unique tool for exploring your sexual role-playing fantasy by allowing you to have an ongoing and arousing communication with your partner in a character of your choosing. Using SMS for sexual role-playing differs from using the telephone in that all of your communication is written, there is a longer time delay between each piece of communication (meaning that your role-playing can last most of the day) and it is easy to pack it full of sexual innuendo and other elements of role-playing fantasy. This article will explore some tools to help you make your sexual role-playing fantasies even sexier over SMS. I encourage you to find time with your lover to explore your sexual side and to make time for all kinds of sexual fantasy and exploration. Role-playing, while only one tool for exploring your sexuality, offers a bit of harmless fun that can be had by couples of all ages and all backgrounds and it is one sure fire way to escape the roles that you normally play and become another couple entirely. The first step in establishing a role-play over SMS is to establish with your partner what kind of fantasy the two of you would like to escape into. You could choose a French-maid and her demanding boss, a nun and the priest or a schoolgirl experimenting with her sexuality. Whatever you chose, it should be appropriate for the two of you and it should reflect the nature of your relationship and the nature of the lovers involved in the role-play. Remember, that if you are choosing a fantasy that involves bondage or discipline or a dominant or submissive role it is always wise to establish a “safe-word” before you begin your fantasy, should any partner become uncomfortable with the direction that the fantasy takes. Once you have established your fantasy, you can let your partner know that the two of you will be communicating over SMS and that the two of you must stay in character. Staying in character is one of the most important elements of sexual role-play. To stay in character requires a lot of creativity as everything that you say or SMS to your partner must be said from the point of view of the character you are playing in your role-play. This enhances the role-play and allows both characters to escape into it fully. To be engrossed in a role-play is to forget your role outside of the fantasy and to completely indulge yourself in the new role that you have taken on for the sexual fantasy. Once you have established and begun your role-play over SMS there are a few things to remember to keep it sexy. The first of which is to pace yourself. Let your messages describe the fantasy over time so that you let your lover sit on a sexy slow-cook for most of the day, while they are at work or are doing their errands so that when the two of you meet you are both bursting with sexual energy. By taking it slow and letting your role-play fantasy unfold over time you are giving all of the partners in the fantasy time to become comfortable in their role and, more importantly, aroused by it. In your messages itself, sexual innuendo is a great tool to make your messages sexier. Sexual innuendo is when you use words or phrases that refer to both sex and something else at the same time. Pick themes or phrases that are specific to your fantasy and indulge your creative side. Let your lover become aroused through your innuendo and let them escape their mundane day within the fantasy. Some sexual innuendo, in a role-play setting, can be cheesy, creative or even outright obviously sexual. You should simply use whatever is necessary to progress the role-play at the time. MMS or photographs are another great tool to use in role-playing fantasies. You can send your lover photos of you in your outfit or photos of things that are relevant to your role-play. This way, your lover has a visual reference to help them picture what is happening between the two of you and what is going to happen when you finally meet. Using a photograph can inspire your lover or arouse them and helps to set the scene and firmly establish the role-play. Whatever kind of fun you are planning to have with role-play, remember to always be safe and respectful with your lover and to establish firm ground rules. SMS is one of those tools that lends itself towards sexy, playful communication and is a great tool for sexual role-playing. I encourage you to come up with your own ideas about how to have great sexual role-play over SMS and to experiment with these ideas to inspire and arouse your lover to even greater heights. Fox Aston |
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