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| Author: | Ellimist [ Mon Mar 07, 2011 2:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | Shot myself in the foot? |
So I've been talking to this girl for around a month and a half. We've been on four dates, and things were going awesome. She seemed to be a pretty outstanding girl, and she was downright beautiful. Most beautiful girls seem to be crazy or lacking in the personality department, but she had it all. It seemed to be too good to be true. Well we had plans to hang out last night which was Saturday. On Thursday I sent her a text along the lines of "Hey my brother is working Sat, and he said we could watch a move at his apartment. Sound good?" I live at home, so I obviously didn't want to take her there. She texted me back saying that she wasn't that kind of girl, and basically insinuating that I was attempting to sleep with her. Which wasn't the case at all. Yes, I wanted some along time with her, and did wish to make out and cuddle a bit. But that was all. I am actually a virgin, being raised very old fashioned. Well I explained this to her over text on Friday, and she seemed to accept it. I told her I was a virgin, and take sex pretty seriously. Well we confirmed plans to hang out Sat night, switching it from my brother's apartment, which she was uncomfortable with, to going to a movie. But on Sat, she stood me up. I texted her twice, and called her. No response. I texted her today, (Sunday morning) and no response. So my questions are this. Did I screw up any chance with her? I realize telling her I was a virgin was probably a bad idea, but I was trying to reassure her of my intentions since she freaked out thinking I was just trying to sleep with her. And my second question is, any advice on how to reopen communication with her? Get her to talk to me again, in other words. I would give my left ball for a chance at making this girl my girlfriend. |
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| Author: | ltpqz [ Tue Mar 08, 2011 4:13 am ] |
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How about something along the lines of... Hey we were supposed to meet up Saturday. If you don't want to hang out anymore, that's fine, but I don't want to waste my time. Just text me to let me what the deal is. She may like you and she may not. The worst case scenario is you devoting an inordinate amount of mental energy and time to a girl who isn't into you. So better to find out sooner rather than later. |
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| Author: | pleasureseeker [ Tue Mar 08, 2011 8:45 am ] |
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you were a pussy, you should of called her out on making such a brass assumption...said something like "wow, do you always assume the worst in people"... you don't know anything about me don't behave as if you do. It might be hard to salvage this to be honest, she stood you up and you called her... I hope you didn't ask if "she was okay" for now avoid her, for a couple weeks, don't do anything, then out of the blue call her up and say hey you, what have you been up too lately? I had a crazy week (go into some story that dhv spikes" well what about you? her reply blabla... then try to make her qualify herself to you somehow... make her tell you her ambitions or her passions or dreams, then IOI her saying wow i'm quite impressed that's very unique, then release her by saying, geeze my sister was actually like that too, I don't want to be reminded of her.. then go into c1 and just get her to talk to you, and then when she starts talking a lot start to go ok, yeah, mhmm.... hey I have to go bye. Then a few days later call her up and go "hey you! happy to talk to you.... then towards the end of the next conversation, act like she did something to turn you off again. (play the hot and cold) then ask her out again |
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| Author: | ltpqz [ Tue Mar 08, 2011 10:51 pm ] |
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I think you should consider the possibility that this girl doesn't meet up to your standards. She bailed on you and ignored your calls. If she forgot, she should have apologized. If she's not into you, she should have just told you. I don't think this girl is worth a lot of effort. In my opinion, you should just ask her what the deal is. I think actually having standards is better than pretending to have standards (waiting a few weeks and then making up a story about how awesome you are). |
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