I have a problem that I hope some of you might be able to help me out with. Last night I was on a Day 2 with a hard 9 I number closed last Thursday. It was her friends 21st so she had me meet her at one of the campus bars. I had barely sat down with my drink when I was told we were all going to a different bar already. I took this as a chance to isolate.
"Well you could go but then that means I'm going to be here. How about you wait with me while I finish my drink and we can walk over together?"
That seemed to work fine, so after the drink we headed to the other campus bar where her friends were raging. I bought the Bday girl a drink 1) because it was her bday 2) I thought it would help me build good rapport with my targets friends and it was kind of fun watching her struggle to take down drinks. I sat back and fluffed a lot with my target and when one of her friends approached I made sure to introduce myself. Things seemed to be going great, until we left to go to My last bar of the night.
We luckily were able to get a table and at 2:00 am that's impressive. the group watched as the bday girl took shots out of her gf's crotch and I continued to work my targets group, especially the guys. Everything went well until 2:45 when two things happened. First my target told me she was seeing a friend and would be right back and then group left to go to another bar with a dance floor. Now I was alone and trying not to be creepy but finding it very difficult when my targets "friend" starts hitting on her and building kino (something I still haven't done correctly with her). Eventually I positioned myself on the targets right side and with my back to her got one last drink and proceeded to talk to a stranger while I thought of a solution. I decided to leave.
Me: "Hey so I think I'm headed over to *&^% ^&*(&"
Target:"Oh ok, well I'm gunna stay here and catch up, but I'll text you later"
That was when I could have sworn the guy winked at me, because he knew he won. Does anyone have any solutions for how to deal with future friends?
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, that gets rid of the pressure of calling it a proper date) or invite her to YOUR WORLD (ie. some party You're hosting among Your friends).