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Author:  Jabba1 [ Sat Feb 19, 2011 4:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Lmr with very shy girl. What to do?
Hey guys, i just had my first experience with a very shy girl's lmr (since being introduced to the world of pua). I need some advice.

I was at her place at day 3. We made out at the pick up and at day 2, and i was coming over to her place to 'learn her how to cook lasagna'. We made out while cooking and after eating we went to chill in her room.

I skipped the bs and started making out with her, quite passionatly, threw her on the bed and went lying ontop of her.

While escalating i knew in my head i had to do something or i would def face lmr cause she is so shy. I didnt do anything and just kept escalating. When taking her clothes off, i hit lmr.

I will prolly see her again, but next time, i wanna know what to do hehe. Any advice? I thiught about stopping while escalating, but i figured that maybe wouldnt be congruent with my 'passionate escapating', so to speak, and she might figure im gaming her?

Any advice is very welcome!
Author:  2surgical [ Sat Feb 19, 2011 4:21 pm ]
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Keep escalating and freeze her out every time she rejects you.

Sounds like she's teasing you. Show her that you don't want to deal with all this indecisive mind-game bullshit.
Author:  Jabba1 [ Sat Feb 19, 2011 4:31 pm ]
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Thx for the advice. Just a quick question tho,

How do u know she's teasing? Couldnt it be sincere insecurity and the 'fear thats similar to our AA, as Mystery describes it'?


Maybe i should add, she had, both day 2 and 3, a very shy body language.
Author:  2surgical [ Sat Feb 19, 2011 4:40 pm ]
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Well I think it's strange that she lets you get that far before doing anything. Why doesn't she say anything about it before hand or while you're escalating. I'm sure she can see where it's going...

Ask her about it.
Author:  Jabba1 [ Sat Feb 19, 2011 9:31 pm ]
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Tho i dont wanna ask her, cause it shouldnt be framed as a big deal.

Ill try saying its too fast next time, while escalating, and if she still holds on to lmr, ill try the freeze-out.

Will be the first freeze-out for me, quite exciting hehe.

So i really move away from her, and go check my email with just saying 'o.k.', and after she asks whats wrong, ill say 'nothing, i just respect a womans boundries'.

And then she will re-initiate the physical contact, even when she's shy? I just have this feeling it might backfire
Author:  pro tean DV [ Mon Feb 21, 2011 1:21 pm ]
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yeah best advice would be to do a freeze out hwen this happens. the reason she doesnt just stop you right away is obvious, she wants this just as much as you do, maybe more, but her social programming is what's stopping her. lmr is just her trying to validate herself by perfoming an 'i'm not a slut' act. by doing a freeze-out you let her see "that you respect her" and at the same time that this will happen because she wants it to happen, you've just got to 'wash, rinse and repeat'.

good luck out there man :D , tell us how it works for you.
Author:  Jabba1 [ Mon Feb 21, 2011 5:39 pm ]
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Cheers man. She started to flake on me, prolly cause i went sexual too soon and didnt handled it right.

I've downloaded an e-book from mr m and braddock on phone and textgame.
I guess this is nice practise to turn a flaker into a lover hehe.

I'll definatly let u guys know how/if i manage to handle lmr with either this or an other girl!
Author:  snakeeater1337 [ Sun Mar 06, 2011 5:28 am ]
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Sounds like she's teasing you. Show her that you don't want to deal with all this indecisive mind-game bullshit.

Hahahaha, I like how there's probably a forum post somewhere with a girl asking why the guy she's with keeps freezing her out. Don't PUAs play some mind-game bullshit too?

"It's all in the game." - Omar Little
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