PUA Forum
https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/

Got her number but now im struggling!
https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=53&t=85080		 Page 1 of 1
Author:  TimeToLearn [ Tue Feb 08, 2011 11:27 am ]
Post subject:  Got her number but now im struggling!
Hi guys and girls. Im very new to the whole pick up thing. So I hope you can help with a situation I have.
I met a very cute girl at a club about a week or so ago, opened her and had some very general conversation. But before I knew it she was being dragged away by her friend. I did manage to get her number so I text her the next evening inviting her to a party and telling her we should get to know each other, she agreed etc She didnt come in the end but was texting me that evening whilst sounding very drunk. Basically im not sure if I should continue to show interest by starting conversations by text? If I should does anyone have a way of getting her interested, building connection (something I failed to do due to bitch friend)?
Thanks guys any help would be appreciated, she is really my type :D
Author:  mgk [ Tue Feb 08, 2011 1:39 pm ]
Post subject: 
Normally I shy away from inviting girls out on the first phonecall or text, especially when I met them drunk at a club / bar / houseparty / whatever. Girls are a whole different beast when they're drunk, and chances are you're not the first guy they've given their number to drunk or even nondrunk.

This is just me personally, there are a bunch of ways to play the phone game. But I like to call them first (in attempt to show them I have balls) and keep the conversation short. Control it. 2-3 minutes or so, if you can bring up something to build connection from the previous night all the better. Then end it saying, "well blah blah blah got me thinking about you, but I'm on the way to blah blah blah, I'll talk to you later." Some people are really good at texting though, but I usually think it's a good idea to not throw out the invite or hangout right away.

Keep the texts short and sweet. Don't instant respond. Make it sexual. Early on it might be necessary that you initiate the convos. Look around here, there's lots of good opener texts. Make her interested, try to get into roleplay. Build that comfort a bit, get her hooked. Sometimes I don't even say bye if it's not an interesting text. After a couple convos over a few days or a week I'll throw them an invite.

I'd say you're still fine, just get her interested and comfortable a bit. Try to create some sexual tension too. Roleplay is always good if you can fit it in. Look around the forum for interesting texts. Texting is a great tool because it can be calculated. Morph ideas into your own, adapt to her responses. You'll be good.
Page 1 of 1 All times are UTC
Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group
http://www.phpbb.com/