Hey guys
Been talkin to this girl for a while, we have a date thing arranged, but it is a group social event. This girl is great, but I've known her a while and she is a Victim and a manipulator. Some guys say don't waste your time, but she's a lot of fun when she's not out to break a heart. I honestly don't trust her IOI's though.
We have a past romantic history, ended with me being a whiny little bitch, so her IOI's confuse me extra.
Here's a text between us two today, she opened
Her: Heyyy
(Exaggerated greeting? I've always thought of that as a good sign)
Me: Hey smelly
Whats up?I've never been good at teasing, and this seems like a weak response to me)
Her: Hey, I'm not smelly I actually showered and put on girly smells, going to someones house, you?
(Validation for the negg? My understanding is thats a good thing. And following my frame?)
Me: Haha, can't smell as good as me. Just wastin time at work, the last hour is always so boring.
(Zero game here. I took the smell bit one step too far.)
Her: I dunno, I get paid based on how hard I work. And I might, you'll never know will you?
(Attack at me, or shit test? Either way, not what I wanted.)
Me:I can smell you from here
(Lame. Could have turned it around or escalated I bet. And keeping with the smell bit too much.)
Her: And you must be in ecstasy from it
(I'm sure I would be, girls too quick for me. I have no idea...)
Me: Hahaha, you're good at this. You discuss your smell often?
(I dun even know man.)
Her: No, I just think fast
(I desperately want to believe thats some sort of validation...)
Me: Crazy. you up to much tonight?
(Trying to change subject. I think)
Then we continue to chat about nonsense (chicken wings, weed, babies, my bass).
Afterwards, twice I put down the phone after a text, waited, and received another after a while. Makes me feel good when I do this. It only works so many times though. Woops.
This is simply my analysis, I find it better to write stuff down and go through it slowly. Feel free to comment. I'd love more input
