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Author:  almoody6872 [ Sun Jan 30, 2011 6:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Congruence Tests VS IODs VS She's Just a B*itch
What Happened
(This took place within 10 minutes)


1. She Ignored me - I called her name two more times then she responded and laughed playfully.

2. I asked, “Where are you going? And she said “ Home” with a smile on her face as she continued walking away.. I ignored it, as she wasn’t really going home.

3. She starts leaving and with a serious tone says “See you around.”. I told her to “Come here.” with a smile on my face. She starts smiling hard and comes back.

4. When she comes back she says “Add me on face book.” while walking towards me, as she is on her way to class and can’t be late. I say, “I don’t get on face book that often. What are your digits?”

5. She says, “No, I don’t give my number out. ” She appeared to be very serious. And starts walking off. I say, “Come here.” She comes back with a smile on her face. I say, "I’m not one of these 'other guys' you talk to. You can give me your number.” She starts laughing.

6. She says, “What happened two semesters go when I gave you my number?” (Last semester I was AFC and got her number but only called once and she didn’t answer so I gave up.) I say, “You got shy and you didn’t reply!” She started laughing.

7. I say “I think you are intimidated by me!” She stops laughing, gets serious, and says “ You DO NOT intimidate me.”


Then she says "Here, take my number." And then we hugged.

Are these Tests, IODs, or is this really her personality? What would you do now? I see her occasionally walking around campus.
Author:  AdamThomas [ Sun Jan 30, 2011 9:48 pm ]
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She's just fucking with your head. She is interested though, she wouldn't have given you her number before or asked you to add her on Facebook if she wasn't. I never bother with those kinds of girls though, I can't stand them.
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Jan 31, 2011 1:55 pm ]
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1. It's ONE interaction. Who cares. If you have her number, give her a call or text and arrange something. If she's interested she'll agree / get back to you. If not, try the next girl.

2. Why are you trying to get the number so quickly? Obviously she's on her way somewhere but at least try and build some kind of rapport. If you n-close too quickly you'll get a lot of flakes because the girl doesn't really know you, and you haven't had much time to dispel the notion that you could be a fucking weirdo. (That's why calling is best).

3. Why say "I intimidate you." ? It's not a rapport-building, value adding, or even funny thing to say. If you're not getting much out of her or she seems nervous, just say "hey, it's ok, you don't have to be nervous - you're cute, don't worry about it ;-)" and smile. No self-respecting girl is going to admit that she's intimidated, so EITHER WAY you're going to get a "NO I'm not" out of her. Building a YES ladder is the way to get her to agree to see you again. Don't say things that will DEFINITELY generate a NO.

4. WHY exactly do you want her number? WHY are you even talking to her? Have you made it clear that you find her attractive and want to get to know her and pursue some kind of romantic relationship? If not, WHY NOT?
Author:  almoody6872 [ Mon Jan 31, 2011 2:48 pm ]
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Once again blondguy VERY GOOD advice.

Just to make sure I understand this, you are telling me that I should add the following into my game:

1. Build Rapport BEFORE asking for the number.
2. Build a YES Ladder and AVOID things that will definitely generate NOs
3. Let her know WHY I want her number

Is this right?
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Feb 03, 2011 5:21 pm ]
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Quote:
Once again blondguy VERY GOOD advice.

Just to make sure I understand this, you are telling me that I should add the following into my game:

1. Build Rapport BEFORE asking for the number.
2. Build a YES Ladder and AVOID things that will definitely generate NOs
3. Let her know WHY I want her number

Is this right?
1. Yes
2. Yes
3. Yes - to clarify:

(A) Within the first few minutes, either compliment her on an attractive quality, or signal your sexual / romantic intent in some way

(B) Try and arrange the day 2 right there, before closing, based on a commonality (e.g. she has a massive sweet-tooth? You know the BEST hot chocolate place. She's asian? You know the BEST sushi place, etc. ;-))

(C) If you don't do (B), say that you want to exchange contact info so you guys can get to know each other better over a coffee / drink / bite / game of skeeball / whatever. I.E. NOT "hang out sometime" which is too generic and could be unclear exactly if you want to be friends or what.
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