Ok so I'm new to the site. I will start off by saying I'm very confident to some extent lol. I already do the hello to random people whenever i'm out and about. I am still shy at first meeting new people but I quickly find a common ground to fit in. I've had several girl friends and a couple friends with benefits. Like for instance I am in college and I sat on the first day next to this HB8. I did say a couple things to her here and there and then the 2nd class I was late. After leaving class I noticed she was walking by me on our way out to our cars. I was like wow it was crazy the professor new my name (cause she greeted me and said thanks for joining us when I walked in late). I was like it's the 2nd day and she knows me by name. Casey (that's the girl) was like yeah, she did roll and said your name and was like he's not here lol. Well we just exchanged in small banter and I even answered a call in the process (which it was to go see my neice but I said is ashyln there and was like ok i'll stop over I want to see her. So later that night I sent her a friend request on Facebook and found out she had a boyfriend lol. she accepted btw lol.
Ok so my problem now. I met this girl on a dating website. (i've already dated 1 other girl off of that site) but this girl is amazing. So I sent her a message saying I don't check this site much if ya want you can add me on FB and i gave her my address. She sent me a friend request. We didn't talk for like about a week. I saw her on chat one night and started talking to her. I gave her my number and ended the chat after a bit (she was going to bed mind ya it was 3am lol) and the next day we started talking again on fb chat and she gave me her number. We started talking every couple days about random stuff and I noticed that in the last week we started texting on a daily basis.
THE KICKER..... when she says goodnight she always asks if she can talk to me tomorrow, and I always tell her gooodnight and sweet dreams and yes lol. Well after this week of texting on and off all day long every day, we make plans to hang out. at the last minute she cancels. but follows it up with a (what's your schedule like with school maybe we can hang out this week.
So last night she texts me and goes you live in blah blah area right? I was like yeah why you stalking me? She goes i'm at my friends house, and was gonna stop by your place if you want me too. So I was like sure you can, I need to clean up a bit but just call me when you are coming over. She texts me about 30 mins later asking me when she can come over, I am like whenever i've been done cleaning up for like 20 mins. So she comes over.
First time seeing her and omg amazing. I walked down to get her and we come up to my place. she comes in I offer her something to drink and pizza that I had made just a few mins before. she takes a water and we sit down. she saw my xbox was on and asked what i was playing blah blah blah lol. So we start listening to music (cause i'm making her ringtones well was going to we never got to that). But we start talking about what she likes and everything. The night entailed me finding alot out about her (just while we were looking for songs for a cd for her) she told me about her family and pretty much a normal first date that you would have at at dinner. Well she finally said it's getting late I need to go to bed. So I walk her down. The tension is really high. I was thinking too damn much. she goes to give me a hug and I give her one in return and then she leaves. we text some on her way home and then she texted me when she got home.
We text all day today (the day after i met her). and actually just said goodnight. ok in all the times we text, she always says goodnight and can we talk tom, or we will talk tom. (btw she tells me to be careful when i was out in bad weather and is pretty considerate if I seem upset about something)
Well tonight she told me goodnight hun, ttyl
WTF WTF WTF
I'm getting the vibe she is into me considering we text all day today and that is the first time she called me hun. Then I read on here that it is a bad thing FML lol. Did I just make it to the Friend Zone or do you think she is into me. (also cause we always joke I said maybe i'll hold this song list she wanted in exchange for another hangout) and she said we will hang out again. I don't want to be diggin this chick and think she's into me when I could be misreading the situation. I need help what to do next. how to find out if she is into me. (my last girlfriend made it too easy and she was like a panther jumping on meat so it wasn't hard to figure out ) lol