Update here; I texted her THREE times so I dont know if should bother continuing. The melbourne lair guy thought she was interested after the first 2 time and now arent replying anymore; Anyway here it is...
I met her one TUES, so on the FRI following;
ME: So I know you had your heart set on me calling you but I think text is a fair compromise. Ill be hanging around st kilda and the city (places in melb) tonight, we should meet up
HB: haha so disappointing :p Im not heading out tonight though, go work early tomorrow. decided where you're going?
ME: pfft, who works on sat morning? Like I said ill prob be in st kilda since I dont know what else is good on a friday. What time is work?
HB: Yeh the saint isnt too bad on a fri! Lol I work all weekend its pretty lame... I start at 9 tomorrow so I prob wont bother going out tonight. Have fun!
TUES;
ME: How was working all weekend? I had fun going out a few times, Im sure your weekend was equally as exciting...:p
HB: Haha wasn't bad, had a 21st at baroq on sat and went to alumbra (clubs btw) for a bit after which was good besides a 10 hour shift sunday lol... where'd you end up going to?
ME: Haha sounds fun. Like I said Friday was st kilda, I know a cool bar I forgot the name of, sat was city and last night was my cousins 21st so we got him wasted, I was designated driver tho
, wat u up to?HB: Aw being designated driver is the worst! I'm just at home, have work at 4 cbffff so over working lol wat u up to?
ME: Wow u sure do work a lot was gonna hit up the beach but now is cloudy, my friends are getting kinda iffy. Where do you work? lemme guess some kinda hospitality
HB: Haha why hospitality? I work at a call centre and safeway lol trying to save as much as possible for europe
where do u work?ME: Haha check out chick. I dont work cuz I got back from studying in america like 2 weeks, Im looking tho, prob be a waiter again. So listen, Im going out a lot this week, prob hitting up hawthorn (bar/lounge) tomorrow, u should join.
HB: Oh yeh fair enough! Im not sure if we're going out tomorrow coz we're all working, may be there next week, Ill let u know if we end up coming tomorrow
ME: haha well maybe I wont invite you next week...:p are there any day when you dont work?
HB: I finish most days by 8, so far I only have thurs off but most of the time they call and ask if I wanna work haha so never really know! Im jealous of u i wanna ave no job
ME: Damn u arent making it easy for me r u? Ur lucky im such a patient guy! Ok well like I said I do something most nites so there is a good chance ill be out Thu, if they call you to work u can always cancel and 8 is still early enough to get out and have fun so u have no excuse. Its tomoz or thu, ur choice
HB: Well arent you gonna be out tomorrow? My friends arent gonna go out and Im not coming alone haha so maybe thurs
ME: Huh? yeah ill be out tomorrow... and u wouldnt be by urself, u know me
but I cant make you if you dont want to so you let me knowHB: Yeh I dont think ill come out by myself lol feel too weird, let me know later what ur up to on thurs!
so on THURS;
ME: U sick of working yet? I bet youd rather be hanging out with me
HB: Haha im not at work for once! first day off in so long How was hawthorne the other night?
ME: Yay freedom!! Wat r u gonna do with it? here is what I have in mind; my friends might be going to eve (club) tonight but Id much rather get a quite drink, I know a really chill bar, u in? btw, nevermind was ok, last week was a lot more exciting tho
HB: Haha last week was good fun!! Im at my cousins place at the moment and I have a birthday at the wheelers (pub) that im meant to be going to with them later. Where is this chill bar haha
ME: lol the wheelers, I actually know a few. One in the glen and a few in st kilda (places in melb)
HB: (an hour later) Im not sure whats going on yet ill keep ya posted
are you planning on going to eve later? ME: Im not 100% sure either, my friends are throwing the word eve around a lot today but no definite plans yet, hence why im thinking quite bar, feel like pre drinks? Im thinking glen and taking the night from there :p
HB: How am I meant to drive to the glen and then drink haha!! How am i gonna get home or to the wheelers if i come lol. I have no idea whats going on SPAM no one knows
ME: (this was with the advice of others) ok so come meet me at the glen, im driving so ill giv u a ride home at the very least. or if you promise not to snore ill let u sleep on my couch :p
HB: And then what do I do with my car lol! I think im gonna go to 161 (a club/bar) now with some people so let me know where you end up!
ME: (like 2 hours later) Hey im on chapel, is 161 is bangin?
HB: Im in bed watching dvds haha such a grandma! was gonna go to the wheelers but everyone bailed last min, have a good night! x
I nearly throw my phone at the wall when this happened, I know too emotional right? I was pissed cuz I went out specifically cuz I wanted to meet her. I actually had to drag one of my friends out of the house to come with me, which means he is less likely to come next time I need him.
Basically, what to do now? call it a loss and leave it or have another go and in how long?