Hey man your letting this chick get to your head (as this is very easy to let happen haha) I think if she hung out with you in a coffee shop for just under 5 hours... she's obviously interested in you and I don't feel as tho you've lost her cause of your texting game. She's playing the texting game better than you are... so start playing back, even better!
I will say tho that you probably shouldn't have said "apparently not," that sounds kinda beta male to me... kinda desperate, but your fine dude.
as for the game plan now I would invite her to something your already doing... bring her into your world... for example: "hey my buddies and I decided to have a BBQ at the park at 3:30 this saturday, I think my friends might like you [bringing her into your world, their your friends, they should approve of her, not vice versa]... I'll only let u come if you promise not to embarrass me by being dorky
"Does this help at all? I'm sure the girl is just throwing her flake test's at you to see if you crumble... just stay composed and remember to lead, your the prize, let her realize it.
