Ok guys, I need some help with this HB9. Seems like she's following all the PUA rules herself so it's been hard to read her. She knows she is a HB9 and even mentioned "I used to be shy but then after college, guys started paying attention to me so I don't have problems getting hit on by guys". I think she craves attention and really enjoys getting attention from guys.
I'm not sure how to read her interest in me. She never initiates any calls or text, but will usually return my calls or text and banter with me for a bit. I tried to neg her but she always comes back strong and negs me back. She's always the first to end the text convo after 4-5 exchanges, and she ends phone calls quickly after 5 minutes. So I haven't really had a chance to build good rapport since the exchanges are short and we had 2 short Sunday dates that ended early. I feel like I'm doing all the work in these past 4 weeks.
Here's the timeline:
- I meet her at a mixer and we connect a bit. I get her email at the end of the night.
- I wait 2 days and email her for coffee. She accepts. I also add her on FB and she accepts instantaneously and even FB messages me "wow, didn't know you were in a band. you seem busy with all your hobbies". She obviously went through my FB profile and saw my DHV photos from my bands & racing activities.
- We get coffee a few days later (Thursday). The convo is good, but I made the mistake of extending it too long. After 2 hrs of coffee, she ends the date. However, I do get her number before she leaves.
- I don't initiate any contact that weekend but call her on Monday. She doesn't pickup but calls back next day. I invite her to hang out and she says sure but Sunday is her only availability.
- On Friday New Year's eve at midnight, she text me "Happy NY". I reply with a similar text but got no response from her.
- On Sunday, we hit a bocce ball joint and grab some food too. Convo is good during dinner, we're playful at bocce ball, but at around 9:30pm, she says "I got got sleepy for a moment there.". I wasn't sure if she got bored, and the bocce place closes early on Sunday night, so at 9:30pm I drive her home and give her a hug (moment wasn't right to kiss her). Later that night, she texts me "thank you for dinner & game". I try to continue the dialog and flirt over text, but she ends the text chat first 4-5 short exchanges.
- I wait 2 days, call her again to hang out the following weekend. She says yes but chooses Sunday night again.
- On Sunday, we go to dinner, then hit a dessert place. Dinner convo is great but afterwards at the dessert cafe, these two older 60-something Italian guys at the table next to ours start to chat her up and she reciprocated with friendly convo with them while ignoring me for a bit. (she is 31 btw). She did turn her attention back to me a few times but each time the Italian farts would tap her on the shoulder and she would turn her attention back to them. After 20 min, she says "ok, it's late now, I should go home". Since she gave that hint, I drove her home, gave a hug, and that was it. Later that night she texts me again "thank you for the delicious dinner".
- During that dinner, I mentioned that I was going to Vegas the following weekend (I was trying to demonstrate that I had a life...)
- 2 days later, she text me and says "let me know if you need a ride to the airport for ur vegas trip". I was surprised she initiated, so I try to flirt with her over text. I text "ah, nice innocent girl is gonna drop me off before my trip to sin city". She comes back strong with "wait, u are right, I am too innocent for that. i take back my offer. have a good trip to vegas and stay out of trouble".
- I don't contact her the rest of week, drive myself to the airport and head to vegas. This past Friday night, I text her from Vegas "saw a few belly dancers walking by!". This was an inside joke because she also belly dances for fun. She text back "were they hot?", to which I reply "yeah, 2 hotties and 1 ok belly". Then she texts "are they hotter than me?", to which I reply "depends if u are into middle eastern bellies or asian bellies" (she is Asian). She replies "good answer...have a good time in vegas" and that was the end of the text convo.
So, it's been 3 days now and no further contact from her or from me. She seemed to demonstrate IOI towards me at the beginning, but now we interact only when I initiate a call or text. Also, that incident at the dessert place with the 2 Italian guys really annoyed me. I think I'll going to go dark/freeze for this week to see if she initiates first.
Thoughts?
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are u going to vegas this weekend?