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| Author: | Orion_Pax [ Tue Jan 04, 2011 10:33 am ] |
| Post subject: | Ex intererst coming round to help me move house |
Hey guys! Here goes my first post on here! I started seeing this girl recently, but I had to break it off due to her being a pain in the ass. We only went out a few times, but things got a bit hot and heavy fairly easily. Here's the deal: I'm moving house today and she has offered to come round and help me unpack my stuff and have dinner. When we were kinda seeing each other, we didn't actually go the whole nine yards in the bedroom, however, I would very much like to tonight. Now, I partially come from the school of Ross Jeffries, but I believe all the other "schools of thought" also have plenty to offer. What advice do you guys have to help things along tonight? Any particular language patterns? Any vibes? I'm thinking the Discovery Channel pattern could be a winner. Orion. |
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| Author: | Orion_Pax [ Wed Jan 05, 2011 9:28 am ] |
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Ok, so here's an update (Even though no one chimed in!): So she came round and helped me unpack. There was plenty of physical contact; Play fighting etc. After a while, I couldn't be bothered with anymore unpacking, so I said I was done. She said she figured she should go home, at which point I said I was going to crash test the new TV in the lounge (It's fucking massive and I haven't used it yet). She was like, "Oh, I guess I could stay and watch a movie!" So we're on the couch. I end up giving her a foot massage and she gives me a shoulder massage etc. I ended up laying on my front and she spent the whole movie laid across the top of me. Now, she is a very outgoing girl, but this seems like way too much contact for just friendship. Now, I've already broken off the relationship side of it with her, as I don't want to be with her in that way. So here's the question: How do I go about transitioning this into a "fuck buddy" situation? Orion. |
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| Author: | greykitkat36 [ Wed Jan 05, 2011 11:11 am ] |
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I know a bunch of people who have been doin this exact thing. Here's my advice (i'm new, keep in mind): She's into you for sure, and you can fuck her. However: If you continue inviting her over and only massaging/watching a movie, you will friendzoned or it will never move past that point. You need to take it to the next level. So I suggest while massaging her, try smelling her hair, mention that it smells really good, when she's massaging you, tell her you like it, she can get harder with it etc. Work your way to a kiss/makeout, and then start kissing her neck and stuff, and just keep going. DO IT. |
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| Author: | Orion_Pax [ Wed Jan 05, 2011 12:17 pm ] |
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Yeah, I am well aware of the friend zone. I know how close it can be! It's kinda weird, because we had some pretty full on make out sessions when we were seeing each other. I just bumped her before I got to go for the F-close! Now it almost seems a little tricky to go back there. I need to put together a solid step by step plan! |
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