Hey mate,
I am not a pro at this, but this is what I do and it works somewhat
To get a day two, the best thing is to make her warm for an activity when you just met. Of course it has to be something fun and interesting.
I did this twice last week, with good results. For the first I told her I planned to go ice-skating later that week. After a positive response, I told her she could join me if she wanted. After that it is easy to set up a date, without a lot of txt game.
I met this HB8 at a museum a few days later. After only 3 minutes after opening she joined me for a coffee. We got on well, so I hinted about some gallery I wanted visit later that week. I didn't get a very positive response, but we talked about going for a beer later in the week when I left.
I tried to call her, but didn't get through (I give up calling and stick to txt from now on). She txt-ed me later she wouldn't/couldn't call me, but was sorry she missed my call (IOI in my book)
A date was set up quite easily after that:
me: Hi xx, I am going to check out this cool new gallery by xx on xx. Do you want to join us?
HB: us?
me: A friend wanted to go there. Not sure if he can make it. See you at six tomorrow then. Fun!
HB: Ok, tell me where to meet then, because I don't know where it is. Are you sure it will be open at 6?
(of course my friend didn't make it and we had a fun night out)
So basically I stick to short text messages and not too much txt-ing with girls I just met. I think that if she wants to meet me, she will. If not, I move on.
Any feedback on this?
Rebel.