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Author:  cookay [ Mon Nov 15, 2010 6:51 pm ]
Post subject:  issues closing with a girl, been on about 5 dates
Hi guys. any advice you can give would be much appreciated:

I've been out with a girl (9/10) about 5 times but chatted to her loads on BBM over a period of months.

We flirt all the time and I thought that she fancied me, but then she told me on BBM that she had a boyfriend. So then next time I met her, I was like ok, you've got a boyfriend, we can just be friends, I don't fancy you any more. Then she said that she was lying about having a boyfriend and I could see that she really fancied me after I told her some story.

So at the end of that date I asked if I could kiss her, she said not really as she didn't really want a boyfriend right now...

Then a week or two later she was talking about sex loads on BBM and we ended up having "BBM text sex" and she was like "I can tell you are good in bed".


The girl seemingly wants it but doesn't want to commit to having a relationship as she's obviously too busy or something. How can I close with her? Show that I am not too serious I guess? She also asks me for advice about university and business quite a lot as a friend, boring topics, so hard to juggle the two.


Please let me know any tips guys.
Author:  Atila [ Mon Nov 15, 2010 7:41 pm ]
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Convince her you are not a stalker loser that will leave 30 voicemails a day in her phone when she dumps him. I would guess that's her main worry.

Basically you had it when you said not too serious. Tell her not to worry about your feelings and just come get some cock.
Author:  Mr_Amazing [ Mon Nov 22, 2010 2:40 pm ]
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have you tried inviting her over to your house? that should let you know her level of interest. if she has every excuse not to come over, she`s not interested.
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Nov 22, 2010 2:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: issues closing with a girl, been on about 5 dates
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So at the end of that date I asked if I could kiss her
Don't do this. Alpha men do not ask permission. Alpha men escalate using push-pull, make the girl want it bad, and then give it to her good ;-)
Author:  Legit_ [ Tue Nov 23, 2010 1:48 am ]
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So at the end of that date I asked if I could kiss her
Baaad idea : /

Just do it. If she resists it's probably because you didn't advance kino w/ 1/2 steps method. Worst case scenario she resists, you ignore that it happened, then you try again later.
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