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Author:  Le Loup [ Sun Nov 14, 2010 11:32 pm ]
Post subject:  How I made 5 or more girls fight for me

This might be somewhat long because im actually asking for advice on several girls but the same time it shows how I created a social proof situation where that is literally all I needed to get multiple girls in the same night so you might be able to learn something as well.

The following is all a series of events that happened last night, during the night I use exactly zero canned routine, I dont remember exactly what I said im most cases because I was just being myself, my very confident self.

***THIS IS AN INRO (unecessary reading for those with short attention spans)***
To begin I threw a party last night in my flat. It was a highlighter party. I live in a college town on the east coast of the USA, obviousely i am a student there. I chose this night in particular because there were no conflicting parties so it was most likey that people would actually show up. I kept the girl guy ratio even, I dont want too many guys and it is not good for my image if there is nothing but girls there as well. I refused entry to any guy i didnt know unless it was someone who came along with a really good friend of mine that I trust, and only if it was like one guy. I didnt need 100s of random deuches there to steal shit and cockblock me. I let every girl enter, even if i didnt know her, and there was A LOT of girls I didnt know.

I made myself the center of attention, pretty easy to do if you know 90% of people there, hence the idea to throw a party rather then attend someone else's. I was not drunk (this fucks your game), probably had 3-4 beers throughout a 5 hour period. I flirted with most girls throughout the night, especially those who I didnt already know. Pretty soon I knew everyone at the party. Also, I soon had girls dragging me away from other girls or trying to capture my attention in some other way.
***END INTRO***

Now for the actual advice:

GIRL 1:
This girl I have known for a while, probably close to a year. We are not close friends, it is more a result of moving in the same circle of friends, probably been drinking with her like 3 times. She sees me as a really nice guy because one of her good friends is one of my best friends and he really respects me. Over the year I have known her she has not had a bf or even hooked up with anyone. She comes across as frigid and completely uninterested in men, she literally want to just be friends with every guy she meets, so I have never tried anything with her. Last night she arrived, we hugged etc. and i left. She saw like 3-4 girls all over me through the night, she then started talking to me, we started flirting (prob subconsciously on my part since I just do that with every girl now) and eventually I started drawing on her (highlighter party), i though it would be good to kino. This went on for a while and she started drawing on my face, I moved back and said "this face is too pretty to draw on sry" and then drew on her face (indirect neg). She pretended to get offended and came to a compromise by drawing on my neck. I thought she might have been giving me IOIs all night (standing close, look into my eyes (puppy dog), touching etc but I wasnt sure if she really was interested or just being nice since its such a core part of her personality until..... after half an hour I managed to convince a bunch of drunk people to tell me the truth of what was actually writen there. It said "kiss me", despite what you may think I should have done I didnt actually kiss her. Why? I dont know, I tried to kino some more and eventually she left. She was pretty drunk btw and kept saying she forgot what she even wrote on me, and how she does stuff she isnt aware of when shes drunk (although I dont believe this)

Today I realized that I actually like this girl, shes hot and really nice, i guess i like her personality. What should I do from here, I already have her number since we were friends before...

GIRL 2:
Another friend. Shes pretty much in love with me and has been for a while. Last night she got a little drunk and crazy, decided to put ice down my pants write on my back that I am sexy and pretty much tried to get with me. I responded by flirting back, telling her she was sexy also but did nothing more. I kinda like her but also dont want a LTR with her and dont want to hurt her. Is there any way I can do anything without hurting her?

GIRL 3:
Met her at the party, was flirting with her and her friend all night. Didnt close at all, she came with a mutual friend. I did however find a number written on my back this morning and after some asking around I found out it was hers. I dont know who wrote it, all I know is that she either didnt write it or didnt tell me that she wrote it. Should I proceed with texting her and how?

GIRL 4:
This girl is not hot but I want to fuck her for some reason. Met her drunk at McDonalds 3 nights ago and invited her to my party. She came, I ignored her most of the night, she really like me 3 nights ago, dont know about now. Already have her number, should I call/text?

GIRL 5, 6 and 7:
Got a bunch of random numbers for various reasons last night. What do I text them? As you can probably tell by now Im not good with day 2s, I generally manage to close on the night but yesterday was such a unique situation.

I want all these girls (am I being too ambitious?), I figure I should be able to close at least one or two. Does the whole social proof thing wear off the next day? Or am I in a good situation because of the party? I just dont know how to proceed from here...

Thanks for reading and thanks for any advice you can give me

Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Nov 15, 2010 12:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How I made 5 or more girls fight for me

Invite them on day 2s man, what's the big deal?

Day2: During the week, casual low pressure invite, 2-3 locations, final location near your place, one higher energy with stuff going on like live music, arcade games, one lower energy for comfort building. Remember to kino escalate w/ push-pull, be sexual, bounce to your place, FUCK.

Looks like you can set up a busy week for yourself ;-)

Author:  Serial Killer [ Mon Nov 15, 2010 2:37 pm ]
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Do you and your friends just go around writing on each other all day??

Author:  Serial Killer [ Mon Nov 15, 2010 2:43 pm ]
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nevermind that haha I just read the intro. I think you should text all these girls so they have your number if you havn't done that already. Then call em up in a day or two and make some moves player.

Ohhh you might wanna leave girl 2 alone and keep her as a friend. There is no way to do that with out hurting her.

Author:  Serial Killer [ Mon Nov 15, 2010 2:47 pm ]
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nevermind that haha I just read the intro. I think you should text all these girls so they have your number if you havn't done that already. Then call em up in a day or two and make some moves player.

Ohhh you might wanna leave girl 2 alone and keep her as a friend. There is no way to do that with out hurting her.

Author:  Le Loup [ Mon Nov 15, 2010 4:56 pm ]
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I know i should invite them to day 2s, my question was how to do that. Like 6 months ago before I got into the game I would text girls the second day and say something like "Hi, wanna hang out" (suggesting something like play pool, get lunch/coffee, come study with me) and they would usually reply with "im busy bc I have to..." (do my laundry, wash my hair or something else dumb like that) or change the subject and start a long text conversation that leads nowhere. A few girls would see me again but only because they want attention and kept me around puppy dog style until I moved on.

So I guess my question is where do I invite them and how? Remember, I live in a small college town and none of these girls are 21 so I cant be like come to a bar. The only way we can potentially drink is at my place because im 21 and I can buy alcohol. The other thing is that most of these girls would go to coffee or something with me because I already knew most of them before that night so we are friends SPAM. I want more then that. Also its kinda risky hitting on friends because I feel like all my other friends would find out if i failed.

Author:  sidney [ Tue Nov 16, 2010 10:17 pm ]
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same situation as you in a college town.

i picked up a girl the other day while i was working and i was thinking about going rock climbing with her at the rec center. i suck at it but i feel like itll be a fun thing to do with her thats out of the ordinary. id probably try and grab a quick bite or coffee or something with her after because i believe in the idea that the number of different locations you take a girl correlates with her comfort with you.

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