PUA Forum :: She doesn't let the tongue in

In a kissing context - Tease like a mother fucker! make it so she wants to explore with her tongue or at least naturally build to it - not like she is doing you a favour, but remember this aint blitzkrieg!!

TEASE TEASE TEASE! Kiss her on her lips, when she trys to kiss you back pull away and smile with a cheeky grin, come in, come out! really rev her engine, lightly brush her lips with yours but dont kiss.

Get as close to her lips without touching, try keep a sly/cheeky half smile going while looking into her eyes and tilting your head like your about to come in but you dont.

Feed her only tid bits, keep doing this at some point in this tease/kiss er... escalation run your tongue in the same teasing fashion along her lips then pull away every so slightly, keep your mouth sightly open and inviting and repeat the same brief action on your lips, she should start copying reciprocating, if she doesnt work it into your kissing variations and she will eventually, at some point the kiss will then transition into a full french: typically when you both try lick each others lips and you start tentatively exploring each others tongue

, just remember to vary the intensity, passion and speed - think rollercoster not a highway!

What your doing is building using your tongue into your kissing in a non explosive manner IE sticking it straight in(you dont walk upto a random girl and start fingering her right away lol .. well some might haha), your getting her excited then naturally building to that point.

While doing all the above you should still be trying to include additional physical contact, I like erotically handling the side/back of their necks varying a firm grip to a light touch, or an earlobe! infact any non normally considered erotic location or in proximity to said location it is great like running your finger down her throat between the breasts but not touching works a treat. Or tracing your fingers from her bum up her spine can get them shivering in excitement, gasping or moaning

The idea is to be a buffet of kissablity, not a farking washing machine with one setting! hope this helps!

Author:	Johan Bach [ Wed Nov 10, 2010 4:43 pm ]
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We have been dating for a while now. I K-closed on the 3rd. She didn't let the tongue in. That night I was like ok she wants to take it slow, but we have met up twice after that. She always seems distant. When I went to her place, rather than sitting on the the big couch, she sat on the single sofa. She responds when I initiate but she never initiates any kino. We always kiss at the end, which has made it like a boring routine she does. Is she interested? Is she having doubts? Should I play a bit of hard to get? Or is she just shy?

Author:	P1nkstar [ Wed Nov 10, 2010 6:34 pm ]
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Eeej mate! The girl i'm dating SPAM had the same in the beginning, first times, no tongue.... but when we have sex etc (now), the tongue comes free, and now it's not really a problem anymore altough in public places she says: no, not here, save it for home, might be the problem dunno... So i don't think you should worry too much, since she is kissing you, might be some girls don't want to come over as sluts or something.... not sure, but happened to me, and turned out great afterwards.... cheers, P1nkstar

Author:	Mr. Valentine [ Wed Nov 10, 2010 6:52 pm ]
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Same thing here. I'd try a freeze out. What I did, was just being normal, kissing her and everything but at some point just stop completely. I just acted normal, we watched a movie at my house but I didn't try anything. After two, or three hours she initiated a kiss.

Author:	biggus [ Thu Nov 11, 2010 3:33 pm ]
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In a kissing context - Tease like a mother fucker! make it so she wants to explore with her tongue or at least naturally build to it - not like she is doing you a favour, but remember this aint blitzkrieg!! TEASE TEASE TEASE! Kiss her on her lips, when she trys to kiss you back pull away and smile with a cheeky grin, come in, come out! really rev her engine, lightly brush her lips with yours but dont kiss. Get as close to her lips without touching, try keep a sly/cheeky half smile going while looking into her eyes and tilting your head like your about to come in but you dont. Feed her only tid bits, keep doing this at some point in this tease/kiss er... escalation run your tongue in the same teasing fashion along her lips then pull away every so slightly, keep your mouth sightly open and inviting and repeat the same brief action on your lips, she should start copying reciprocating, if she doesnt work it into your kissing variations and she will eventually, at some point the kiss will then transition into a full french: typically when you both try lick each others lips and you start tentatively exploring each others tongue , just remember to vary the intensity, passion and speed - think rollercoster not a highway! What your doing is building using your tongue into your kissing in a non explosive manner IE sticking it straight in(you dont walk upto a random girl and start fingering her right away lol .. well some might haha), your getting her excited then naturally building to that point. While doing all the above you should still be trying to include additional physical contact, I like erotically handling the side/back of their necks varying a firm grip to a light touch, or an earlobe! infact any non normally considered erotic location or in proximity to said location it is great like running your finger down her throat between the breasts but not touching works a treat. Or tracing your fingers from her bum up her spine can get them shivering in excitement, gasping or moaning The idea is to be a buffet of kissablity, not a farking washing machine with one setting! hope this helps!

Author:	Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Nov 11, 2010 3:56 pm ]
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If the kiss is this "thing" that you "do" at the end of the date that you have to think about and basically force her to do, then you are not making her comfortable enough using KINO. The k-close should ideally happen sometime during the date, rather than right at the end, and should feel like a natural progression from the touching you were doing before. If you've already kissed her, then she should be comfortable with you touching her on the arm, shoulder, back of elbow, small of back, sides, legs and possibly holding hands too. That means you need to start where you're comfortable and work your way up the ladder. Obviously, every time you see her you can start further up, so the third time you could probably start with small of back and holding hands right away. If you include push-pull into kino then you build more sexual tension and make her want you to keep touching her. For example, if you're walking around holding her hand, and you notice something over there and then break contact and point and make a joke, then keep walking, chances are she'll actually take your hand again. That's building in the idea of her wanting you. Finally, when you go in for a kiss, go 90% of the way there and let her got the final 10, again it's setting the frame of her actually kissing you, rather than her "allowing you" to kiss her.

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Author:	P1nkstar [ Thu Nov 11, 2010 6:04 pm ]
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Quote: In a kissing context - Tease like a mother fucker! make it so she wants to explore with her tongue or at least naturally build to it - not like she is doing you a favour, but remember this aint blitzkrieg!! TEASE TEASE TEASE! Kiss her on her lips, when she trys to kiss you back pull away and smile with a cheeky grin, come in, come out! really rev her engine, lightly brush her lips with yours but dont kiss. Get as close to her lips without touching, try keep a sly/cheeky half smile going while looking into her eyes and tilting your head like your about to come in but you dont. Feed her only tid bits, keep doing this at some point in this tease/kiss er... escalation run your tongue in the same teasing fashion along her lips then pull away every so slightly, keep your mouth sightly open and inviting and repeat the same brief action on your lips, she should start copying reciprocating, if she doesnt work it into your kissing variations and she will eventually, at some point the kiss will then transition into a full french: typically when you both try lick each others lips and you start tentatively exploring each others tongue , just remember to vary the intensity, passion and speed - think rollercoster not a highway! What your doing is building using your tongue into your kissing in a non explosive manner IE sticking it straight in(you dont walk upto a random girl and start fingering her right away lol .. well some might haha), your getting her excited then naturally building to that point. While doing all the above you should still be trying to include additional physical contact, I like erotically handling the side/back of their necks varying a firm grip to a light touch, or an earlobe! infact any non normally considered erotic location or in proximity to said location it is great like running your finger down her throat between the breasts but not touching works a treat. Or tracing your fingers from her bum up her spine can get them shivering in excitement, gasping or moaning The idea is to be a buffet of kissablity, not a farking washing machine with one setting! hope this helps! Haha, so true, this is exactly what i did to get her tongue out... , but rather went naturally here, good advice!

Author:	thevigrxman [ Sat Nov 13, 2010 3:19 pm ]
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great advice biggus

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