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Author:  Mr. Valentine [ Sun Nov 07, 2010 1:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Day 2, Attraction or Comfort?

Hey guys,
I'm in a bit of a complicate situation here, but ill try to keep myself short. 2 weeks ago I made out with this really cute girl. I was pretty wasted, didn't game or anything, but just saved her from a dorky friend of mine. We kissed for just a couple of seconds and then she became really weird. Later I was told she just got dumped by some guy a couple of days ago and was still upset. Also her friend told me she usually never just makes out with random guys, but thought I was cute.
So the next day I talked to her on FB and everything seemed fine, i invited her to come along to a party on halloween and she seemed keen to come. She couldn't though, because her parents are really strict (she is 18 ). Last night I finally met her again in a club, but didn't feel it was appropriate to start in comfort already (also her cockblocking friends were surrounding us).
But I did tell her that i needed to buy some new clothes and needed somebody to help me. So tomorrow we will meet for a shoppingtour. So how should I work it tomorrow? On one hand its obvious she is attracted to me, but on the other hand I feel like after all this time Im on edge of friend zone. So what should I do? Start from scratch or pick it up from the first night and do proper Day2 Game?

Author:  P1nkstar [ Mon Nov 08, 2010 11:43 am ]
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Good afternoon,

Seems, like you have attraction going already, that is good... :)
Since she kissed you you are not heading for the friend zone, who would kiss a friend?? :)
so basicly, i think ur on the right track...

What you need to have now, is the right mindset...

You are not really that intrested in a LTR... (but if a unique one pops by, you don't let it go offcourse)
(what woman can't have they want more)

You are a fun guy to hang out with, you see adventure and fun in small things...

You are a picky guy...
(she needs to prove herself to you first, before you tend to go farther, this is probably what you should do on shopping, let her work for you, but offcourse, good relationships are based on balance, so reward her :))

You have more options then her.... :)
(if not, act like it :))

and most important HAVE FUN! Girls just want to have fun... and so do you... ;)

and if you want more with her, i think you should go for the kiss! :D

cheers, hope this helped a bit....

P1nkstar

Author:  Mr. Valentine [ Mon Nov 08, 2010 12:12 pm ]
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Thanks, man, i think I can work with that. :D
I worry about the friend zone, because the kiss has been more than 2 weeks ago and since that our interactions were not sexual in any way (not even any form of sexual talk). But I guess if she was attracted to me 2 weeks ago, I can still get her back in this state, even if she was about to move on already.

For anyone who cares, I'm planning to go clothes shopping, then to the book store, grab something to eat and finally the furniture store. The last one is my personal favorit first date location. It's really easy to find similarity in taste and you get alot to talk about (you can always throw in something like "this couch looks exactly like the one at this party last night..." and so on).

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