Guys,
To cut a long story short me and my friend went on a double date with these two american exchange students. mine is a HB9. we had a really fun time on the date and i received alot of IOIs, holding hands, holding eye contact etc and she gave me her number at the end of the night which i didnt have :S as the date was organized through her friend(however wasnt a blind date, we had met b4) . anyway problem is now the phone game...which i suck at! and always seem to revert to AFC ways (ie me doing the chasing..and as much as i know about cat string theory i cant seem to follow it)
Ive text her a cpl of days after the date saying it was fun etc and be good to hang out again sometime.
problem is she seems to be acting distant/cold , she DID reply to me however they were really short messages, she didn't seem interested in what i was doing etc so i told her i was busy and i would talk to her soon.
she could:
- she could be really busy with organizing the weekend as shes off on a trip abroad in a days time with her course at uni
or
- she's not interested
or- to early to tell
i think i have got a big chance judging by the other nights date but i need some help/advice to turn the game around and get her to chase me/ and stop me reverting to old AFC ways before i come off as needy or possessive.
The end result is to get her on a second date in which it will be just me and her so she can put down the shield she carrys around when her mates are there i.e. build up kino, more physical connection
so what should i do next...? in terms of calls/txts..any ideas of what to say?
Much Thanks in advance
