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| Author: | Theflyest706 [ Tue Nov 02, 2010 8:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | She. Flaked. On. Me??? |
So I'm a senior in high school and I've great success since my sophomore year when I started studying picking up girls. I have a pretty good grasp of the mystery method and basic concepts, I've number closed, kissed closed, and f closed many times, but mostly with girls not in my school. So here's my problem, I've got a case of one-itis pretty bad, but I really really like this girl to the point where I can't sleep and my mind pretty much revolves around her, even though this is REALLY bad. Here's the start of our interactions up until now: She's in my grade, but I just started talking to her this year. I started by getting in with her friends, building a little rapport, and teasing. I wasn't long before I started making her laugh, teasing her, and I number closed her easily. The next day, while she was laughing hysterically at my playful teasing and DHV stuff, I asked her to my homecoming dance, she said yes, texted me within a half hour of saying goodbye. We went to the dance, but here's the thing, she's really shy, quiet, and doesn't ever initiate conversation with me, but here are the IOIs I got: she flipped her hair while talking to me lots of times, she left her friends to stay with me, she laughed at every joke I made, and she smiled a lot. I didnt try to kiss her or anything that night. Ever since then, I've carefully used lots of DHV stories, teased her, made her laugh almost every time I'm with her, teased her, used lots of gambits and routines, I've had normal conversations, I've texted her only a couple times a week, and I have lots of social proof (more than her) and lots of other girls to talk to. I've been very confident and am the alpha male of the class i have her in.From her, I get LOTS of hair tosses as IOIs, giggling at everything, mirroring my gestures, continuing conversations when I end them, etc. she'll walk a different way to her classes just to walk with me sometimes. This is all good, but the problem is, this has been going on in that cycle for a month now and I don't know what to do to make her my girlfriend!! she's really shy, quiet, religious, nice, and hard to read, but she's very very beautiful and I don't know what to do to go to the next level! the other day I texted her and said hey, and she didn't text back. did she flake on me or what happened, and what should I do to handle it? Thanks in advance for all responses!!!!!! |
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| Author: | Red Rider [ Tue Nov 02, 2010 8:48 pm ] |
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I'm by no means an expert or anything, I'm actually really new to this stuff, but from what it sounds like the only time you to have interacted outside of school is at the dance which still kind of counts as school. I would try to get together with her outside of school more to take the relationship from classmates to something more. |
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| Author: | -SUPERSTAR- [ Wed Nov 03, 2010 12:32 am ] |
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Hi mate, you should have gone direct as soon as you spotted her interest in you with those multiple IOI's - there was no reason for you to carry on with all those DHV routines when she had already made up her mind. It is YOU that needs to make the move not her. If I were you I'd go direct asap before she loses interest. Hope this helps =superstar- |
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| Author: | Theflyest706 [ Wed Nov 03, 2010 2:18 pm ] |
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okay thanks! what can I do to act before I lose her?? Thanks again for the replies! I really appreciate them |
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| Author: | Zach Vance [ Wed Nov 03, 2010 3:37 pm ] |
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I doesn't sound like you're going to lose her. Give her a call, set up a D2 (like Red Rider said, outside of the school environment) and start ESCALATING. You don't need to keep on using DHV stories and routines when she's already attracted. You know this, you've already had the success with other girls. Treat her the same way, except your end goal is the LTR. Zachariah |
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