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| Author: | thehunt [ Wed Oct 13, 2010 9:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | Confused... ljbf zone or not? |
Hey guys, I was wondering if you could help me with this dilemma. I'll get straight to the point. Day #1 It's a Friday night and went back to my place watched a movie and its over. Projector's turned off etc. We make out for three and half hours. In between, I was escalating and was lifting her shirt, but once past above her stomach she put it down. And I was being unattentative and tried three more times. Soon after she asks if I like her. So I was like "why?" and she says just answer. So I said "yea of course. do you like me?" and she says "i like you, but dont want to do anything." so I thought it just meant sex, which was fine with me and we went back to making out. as she was leaving we made out two more times. Day #2 The next day, I basically didn't hang out with her at all, we texted a bit and some stuff came up for me so we didn't see each other. Day #3 So Sunday comes and she tells me she has to tell me something so we go out for a walk, we get alone at a bench. (My body language was probably showing 'ah time to make out again.') And she asks if I understand what she meant by "i like you, but dont want to do anything." I still thought she meant sex so I was like yea of course. Some more stuff happens etc. That night she comes back over to my place looking for the movie case she left. More stuff happens and I'm holding her in my arms and I said I'd tell her where it is if she kisses me. And she tells me, "but I thought you understood what I meant." Observations So. I've discussed this a bit, but want to see what the pua community has to say. I'm pretty sure its a combination of not enough comfort and moving to fast. Throw in a small case of buyers remorse too cause of day #2. But I am still not sure if it went into a friend zone. I actually made myself less available for a week and then went back. We have a date at a mall tomorrow and I am just confused right now. Appreciate the help! The Hunt |
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