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| Author: | Axis777 [ Mon Sep 27, 2010 4:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | help, newbie got lucky but not im over my head |
got this girl on my birthday in the club, i make her aught and say to repeat her name because i forgot, she laughs and says she cant believe how rude i am, a guy pulls her to go to vip, and she grabs my hand says to go with her, i say go with your boyfriend ill wait here laughing, she told me she was single. she comes back, we dance, make out, and she gives me a hand job in the party bus we used on the way back to campus.we fall sleep in the seats. got her number.next day texts me saying she wants to stalk me in facebook. i say great another lurker and givve it to her. dont text her for two days. then i text her midday the third day saying thanks for making my birthday good. we keep talking . she doesnt text back then she texts me at night. we talk for an hour. and this is where i need advice and master help. i say its funny she uses to many exclamation marks sounds like she is screaming. she says everyone says that. i say its cute. she says im cute. i say i cant trust her judgement because the club was dark. she says WOW. offended. then i say let me remind you. send her the link to the pictures of the photographer who took pics that night at the club. there two pic of us. she says i look like her friends boyfriend. then i should put that as my profile pic. i say no because ill look too good. she says "ha". then i freak out and try to save it. because youl be next to me. she says hhahah your right. then i say" chill not that right". she doesnt say anything. then i say " you def look cute though. she says nothing for 10 min then she logs off. is there still hope, because this shit has never happened before to me, i mean pickin up a girl this beautiful and i dont wana ruin it. |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Mon Sep 27, 2010 5:21 am ] |
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Dont read too much into her logging off without saying anything. That's what you should've done;log off unexpectedly. Either 2 thing's happened: 1)She's being a typical girl and using typical hot & cold tactics on you(by not saying anything then log off line). 2)You over negged her by implying that she being next to you(in the pic)would make you look bad. That neg was too much,especially for a chicc who's already given you solid IOI's(a hand job!!!). You should be rewarding her and not punishing her. There come a phase where you should turn the negs off!!! In comfort phase(rapport),there should be no negging;you're backward seducing her. For you to get a handjob is a huge step(for you). So reward her(verbally). But instead,you kept punishing her with negs(heavy-semi-insulting negs). And cut out the hour-long phone chats. At this stage,keep convo' at 2 min. Talking to her for an hour subcommunicates to her that you have no life,nor other girls in your life. You can get away with that if advanced at frame control. But I like your pick up skills overall with this girl;you played it right(at club). |
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| Author: | Axis777 [ Mon Sep 27, 2010 5:27 am ] |
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thanks for the advice appreciate it a million. we havent talked in the phonee yett i meant textin for an hour then that transfer to facebook she seems like a crazy girl, i dont wana trust her thats why i keep over negging but I def fuckeed upp  what do you think my next step is? |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Mon Sep 27, 2010 2:53 pm ] |
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Next step? It's just a waiting game right now. You definitely dont want to be coming off apologetic. So keep gaming a usual,but take it light on the negs. |
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| Author: | Axis777 [ Mon Sep 27, 2010 2:59 pm ] |
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true, that what i keep thinking if i think about her too much ill mess my head and game, plus theres more important things i should focus on like school and work. thanks k-loc for replying |
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