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| Author: | Dylan303 [ Mon Sep 20, 2010 11:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Next moves after possibly disastrous drunk text |
Next moves Hey everyone. First want to say thanks to the community for giving me so much advice over the past few months- spent too much time lurking and now I am finally registered and ready to ask the community for some help on an HB8 Just some background- just got out of a relationship a few days ago- it was long distance for a while and I could feel it going downhill for the last few weeks, so I developed a few targets prior to the breakup. Now that the breakup is “official” I am looking to move on the one I have developed the furthest for now. My game has been rusty but not non-existent. I have revisited all the techniques and while I am not a natural, I am witty enough to make girls laugh a lot. Anyway, this HB8 is very nice, social, and very receptive to my humor. From what I can tell, she has given me a number of IOI’s- I just couldn’t advance on them at the time (a week or two ago) for a couple of reasons 1. She has a guy friend that wants her but he is A) an AFC and B) wayyyyyy too far in the friendzone. Like 10 years into it. 2. I wasn’t officially single and if I had done anything I would have been flamed in my group of friends So, last weekend, my first being single in a long time, I go to Great American Beer Fest on Friday- highly recommended for any beer drinkers out there- and get completely blackout. I usually never get this drunk, but this is the one day a year that you are guaranteed to be tanked no matter who you are. After waking up with wristbands, swag, etc all over I check my text messages the next morning and to my horror I drunk texted her all night. The texts were actually not bad game on my part, and she opened up about how vulnerable she is, how she wishes I was there, etc. That was until the last message. My last message read: “Lindsay I’m putting my cards on the table. I want you. I am fucking perfect for you and the most awesome guy you could ever have.” I honestly don’t remember this, but what the fuck was I thinking? She immediately responded “Really????” but I was already gone for the night and didn’t respond. Usually this would result in total disaster, but this is where I need some expert analysis. The next day, I didn’t write anything back. Was this a dumb move? In the end, I think not because she texted me that night around 10 (she was still in the mountains) saying “I know you were drunk, but I love the fact that you told me, no matter what the timing was. I think we should talk about it, I’m not good at it by any means.” I responded with a “For sure. Have fun tonight” Convo ended there. Haven’t talked to her since Saturday night. So what should I do next? I will see her at kickball (which is actually a great place to sarge) Tuesday where we will go out afterwards. My plan is to pull out the usual stops. I have a couple of other targets so if this is a loss, I won’t be too upset about it but I have spent a good amount of time on it, so I want to close (which is my biggest problem). Some additional questions: - Am I setting myself up for a LJBF talk? I am fully prepared thanks to this forum if so, just want to come into it with the right mindset -Any analysis of her text you can provide? -Have a suggested approach for Tuesday night? |
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| Author: | marcus95 [ Wed Sep 22, 2010 9:33 am ] |
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Im a couple days late but I don't think your drunk text was too much of a hail mary. You showed a bit interest and didn't say anything too crazy like "I wanna come over there and [fill in x-rated behavior] to you." It just showed a bit of interest but she knows you were drunk so she might have taken what you said with a grain of salt. The fact that she said "we need to talk," to me, doesn't sound good. You didn't text her back the next day was not a gamekiller but you could have at least apologized for drunk texting and joke about it, cause imo girls dont want to really read that in the beggining stages. Now had you already fclosed her and are close to forming a LTR with her, then it would have been a different story. I'm kinda new to this forum and just trying to get a little active honestly. Just want to give and take. Whatever happened that Tuesday night?? |
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| Author: | MichaelSel [ Wed Sep 22, 2010 5:05 pm ] |
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act as though it is not a big deal and say: "I was at this party and got really drunk! I won a bet with the guys so i drank for free.. so sorry about that message, i sent it even to my grandma! lol, you and me would never work... but in a good way  "than she would probably ask you about which bet you won... anyways, atleast that is what i would do. Good luck. |
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